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@missy1 wrote:

@Lucky Charm. That whole thread is a confusing mess. 


She mentions 34 years of nursing in the red post. 

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@missy1 wrote:

I just re-read it again. So the op has actually seen her dads will, drawn up by her cousin.  So she is staying to make sure the will doesn't change, I am guessing. She will never have to work again. So if she leaves, she thinks the will change. I would rather leave and be poor, then put up with that krapp. OP said she moved there almost 10 years ago, and has been putting up with her dad's craziness. wow. She's single, and has no kids because she put her life on hold for $, or something else.

 

I agree BOTH need professional help.


This is what I suggested in my post to her as I believe there may be some mental health issues not just regarding the father but the OP as well. It sounds like there is a long history of it in that family and the things the OP has said and the fact that she's been willing to live that craziness for 10 years makes me question her own state of mind. And the cycle will continue...

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I realize that this is a public forum and that we all have the right to express ourselves on a variety of topics.

 

The OP is catching enough flack about her situation in the Pet Lovers Forum.  I can't see any point in making her situation 'grist for the mill' here.

 

Again, just my opinion.

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@Bird mama wrote:

I realize that this is a public forum and that we all have the right to express ourselves on a variety of topics.

 

The OP is catching enough flack about her situation in the Pet Lovers Forum.  I can't see any point in making her situation 'grist for the mill' here.

 

Again, just my opinion.


@Bird mama  No, Birdmama, it is not just your opinion.  I wholeheartedly agree, and do not think the moderators should allow this thread to exist.  

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I have not seen any posts where people were giving FW flak.

 

I have seen posts where people have said that their mental and physical health is not worth any amount of money.

 

 

That is not "flak".

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Okay

 

Happy New Year Everyone :-)

There are times when you must speak, not because you are going to change the opposing side, but because if you do not speak, they have changed you.
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@Bird mama wrote:

I realize that this is a public forum and that we all have the right to express ourselves on a variety of topics.

 

The OP is catching enough flack about her situation in the Pet Lovers Forum.  I can't see any point in making her situation 'grist for the mill' here.

 

Again, just my opinion.


@Bird mama  Totally agree.

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@Bird mama wrote:

I realize that this is a public forum and that we all have the right to express ourselves on a variety of topics.

 

The OP is catching enough flack about her situation in the Pet Lovers Forum.  I can't see any point in making her situation 'grist for the mill' here.

 

Again, just my opinion.


 

 

I completely agree with you @Bird mama.  I also agree with @IamMrsG that I think the Moderators should consider removing this thread.


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I've posted with forrestwolf on the recipe forum for years and she has always said that she's a nurse in a prison here in South GA.

 

And I believe her. She's always been a nice, friendly poster with a good sense of humor on the recipe forum.

 

It sounds like she's had some life changing events in her life lately and I only wish her the best.

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@KingstonsMom wrote:

I've posted with forrestwolf on the recipe forum for years and she has always said that she's a nurse in a prison here in South GA.

 

And I believe her. She's always been a nice, friendly poster with a good sense of humor on the recipe forum.

 

It sounds like she's had some life changing events in her life lately and I only wish her the best.


Very well said and I couldn't agree more.  Thank you for this post @KingstonsMom.