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such a sad thread

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 Over in Pet Lovers.  "Here I sit with no Wolfgang".  I'm depressed just reading her story. Wish I could help her.

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@SharkE wrote:

 Over in Pet Lovers.  "Here I sit with no Wolfgang".  I'm depressed just reading her story. Wish I could help her.


I know, sharke.  I did my best.  Still, I worry about Forestwolf a lot.  Maybe she'll post again.  I feel like she just needs to stay connected.  I know I'd like to just be her friend if that's what she needs.

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wow.. Is her story real? 

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Makes one wonder. I know if it was my story my old man would leave all his money to strangers before he'd leave me a cent that's how my story would work out.     Woman Sad

 

My sister in law put up with 'stuff' all her married life from her 2nd husband come to find out the house and his monies are going to his kids from his first marriage. She put up with all that 'stuff' for yrs. for nothing he's laughing from the grave.

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I hadn't read today's post when I posted a few minutes ago.  Forrestwolf, are you the sole beneficiary in your father's will?  Do you have a lawyer?  It sounds like you need some medical care and some legal advice.  You may be able to see that your Dad is cared for from a distance--therefore solving both your problems.

 

As a nurse, you know that you need to care for yourself first!!!  You can't help anyone if you're not well!

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It definitely places a heaviness on the heart. I wish she had a counselor to help her sort out some of the issues in her life. At least it seems Wolfgang is finally safe, I hope that is true. I know that there is no amount of money in the world that would dictate to me how I live my life. And if my mother left me with such a miserable human being, why would I care what she thought from the grave? I don't mean what I have written to be harsh, but what FW really needs is some perspective in her life. It is short enough, and not meant to be filled with such misery.

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Re: such a sad thread

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The dog is taken care of now.  It would be cruel for a dog to be home alone and shut in for those long hours.

 

The only way she's going to get better is to start taking care of herself

 

She needs to get healthy to be wealthy.

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Woman Happy

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@MaggieMack wrote:

It definitely places a heaviness on the heart. I wish she had a counselor to help her sort out some of the issues in her life. At least it seems Wolfgang is finally safe, I hope that is true. I know that there is no amount of money in the world that would dictate to me how I live my life. And if my mother left me with such a miserable human being, why would I care what she thought from the grave? I don't mean what I have written to be harsh, but what FW really needs is some perspective in her life. It is short enough, and not meant to be filled with such misery.


@MaggieMack I though the very same thing. No amount. None.

 

And I hope the story that Wolfgang is now safe is true.

 

There are so many things with this story that disturb me, if true.

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I just read the thread, and..... wow.........just........wow.

 

 

I am still confused by what she meant when she said that her father would not let her out of the truck.

 

Yes, having millions of dollars in the bank is nice, but at what cost?

 

 

Is a million dollars worth your physical health?

 

Is a million dollars worth your mental health?

 

 

 

Also, I think that she needs to re-home the dog.

 

Obviously the dog isn't happy there. I think that is why it keeps running away. Animals feel stress too.

 

Yes, I know that she loves the dog, but she needs to put the dogs best interest above what she wants.

 

Just my two cents.