Re: such a sad thread

Silver Lining · ‎04-16-2010

@fortune wrote:
I hadn't read today's post when I posted a few minutes ago. Forrestwolf, are you the sole beneficiary in your father's will? Do you have a lawyer? It sounds like you need some medical care and some legal advice. You may be able to see that your Dad is cared for from a distance--therefore solving both your problems.

As a nurse, you know that you need to care for yourself first!!! You can't help anyone if you're not well!

Exactly. Her father can change his will unless he has been legally declared incompetent. He sounds like a violent, sadistic man but that doesn't mean he can't control his own financial resourses and documents.

hckynutjohn · ‎06-15-2015

@SharkE wrote:
Over in Pet Lovers. "Here I sit with no Wolfgang". I'm depressed just reading her story. Wish I could help her.

Losing a pet, a family member to us, is always sad to read or hear. This year, in less than 7 weeks, we lost our 15-16 and 17 year old feline family members.

The first 2, mother kitty and her son, we had to euthanize because of cancer. The Momma we knew had a tumor in her mouth. We treated her with oral meds for well over a year. We knew that as soon as we saw her quality of life diminish? When we did we kept the promise we made to her.

Her son, different story. In a matter of 2 days I recognized "he was not right". The second day I could see he was in a lot of pain. Rushed him to our vet and tests showed cancer in several places in his abdomen. We did not bring him home with us. Both him and his mother took their last breaths in my arms, they were my kitties!

Our oldest one? I have already told that story here. It was the hardest of the 3 for both my wife and I.

For everyone that has ever lost a furry family member, we all understand the pain.

hckynut(john)

missy1 · ‎03-10-2010

Why get a dog when she has no fence? She just left the dog outside? Of course the neighbors will play with the dog. That op is gone all day, at work allegedly as a nurse.

Her dad, lets the dog out of the car. That is cruel and abuse. I am glad the dog has a new home. Some people should not own pets.

She is staying because she thinks she will inherit lots of cash. It may not happen that way. I assuming it's in her dad's, will because of the companies he owned..(pecan/seeds) So putting up with her dad's crazy behavior will keep her on his will. Like controlling her. So if she leaves the state, she thinks he will take her off the will. Maybe she should see that will. She may get zero.

Stray · ‎04-20-2013

I had to go back and read the thread. It is sad but some did not make sense to me. If he has such little regard for her, I wouldn't count on inheriting from him. That would be the final cruel act on his part. The poster does need psychological help.

Plaid Pants2 · ‎03-14-2015

I still don't understand how her father prevented her from getting out of the truck, when he took the dog to the highway.

missy1 · ‎03-10-2010

I just re-read it again. So the op has actually seen her dads will, drawn up by her cousin. So she is staying to make sure the will doesn't change, I am guessing. She will never have to work again. So if she leaves, she thinks the will change. I would rather leave and be poor, then put up with that krapp. OP said she moved there almost 10 years ago, and has been putting up with her dad's craziness. wow. She's single, and has no kids because she put her life on hold for $, or something else.

I agree BOTH need professional help.

Plaid Pants2 · ‎03-14-2015

@missy1 wrote:
I just re-read it again. So the op has actually seen her dads will, drawn up by her cousin. So she is staying to make sure the will doesn't change, I am guessing. She will never have to work again. So if she leaves, she thinks the will change. I would rather leave and be poor, then put up with that krapp. OP said she moved there almost 10 years ago, and has been putting up with her dad's craziness. wow. She's single, and has no kids because she put her life on hold, or someething else.

I agree BOTH need professional help.

But here's the thing, even with her staying there, Dad can still change the will, without her knowing.

Her cousin being the attorney drawing up the will doesn't mean squat, because of the attorney/client privilege.

Her cousin, the attorney drawing up the will, would legally have to keep his mouth shut, about her father drawing up a new will.

So that's why I said that just because she has "A" copy of "A" will, does not mean anything.

missy1 · ‎03-10-2010

@Plaid Pants2 wrote:
@missy1 wrote:
I just re-read it again. So the op has actually seen her dads will, drawn up by her cousin. So she is staying to make sure the will doesn't change, I am guessing. She will never have to work again. So if she leaves, she thinks the will change. I would rather leave and be poor, then put up with that krapp. OP said she moved there almost 10 years ago, and has been putting up with her dad's craziness. wow. She's single, and has no kids because she put her life on hold, or someething else.

I agree BOTH need professional help.

But here's the thing, even with her staying there, Dad can still change the will, without her knowing.

Her cousin being the attorney drawing up the will doesn't mean squat, because of the attorney/client privilege.

Her cousin, the attorney drawing up the will, would legally have to keep his mouth shut, about her father drawing up a new will.

So that's why I said that just because she has "A" copy of "A" will, does not mean anything.

I agree. On the other thread mentioned op has power of attorney, so she would know if he changed the will. ...???

Also, what makes op think she will outlive her crazy dad. Things don't always go the way you think it will.

Someone said op is a nurse at a prison, looks like op is a teacher or something like that.

Then op wrote she has to find the money etc. he has??

Lucky Charm · ‎03-09-2010

@missy1 wrote:
@Plaid Pants2 wrote:
@missy1 wrote:
I just re-read it again. So the op has actually seen her dads will, drawn up by her cousin. So she is staying to make sure the will doesn't change, I am guessing. She will never have to work again. So if she leaves, she thinks the will change. I would rather leave and be poor, then put up with that krapp. OP said she moved there almost 10 years ago, and has been putting up with her dad's craziness. wow. She's single, and has no kids because she put her life on hold, or someething else.

I agree BOTH need professional help.

But here's the thing, even with her staying there, Dad can still change the will, without her knowing.

Her cousin being the attorney drawing up the will doesn't mean squat, because of the attorney/client privilege.

Her cousin, the attorney drawing up the will, would legally have to keep his mouth shut, about her father drawing up a new will.

So that's why I said that just because she has "A" copy of "A" will, does not mean anything.

I agree. On the other thread mentioned op has power of attorney, so she would know if he changed the will. ...???

Also, what makes op think she will outlive her crazy dad. Things don't always go the way you think it will.

Someone said op is a nurse at a prison, looks like op is a teacher or something like that.

Then op worte she has to find the money etc. he has??