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Re: does this sound strange?


@Plaid Pants2 wrote:

@goldensrbest wrote:

I just retuned from spending 10 days there with my mom,  she won't go anywhere,except in the small town they live in ,without my brother being with her,he stops over 3 times a day, spends little time with wife, just  concerned  about their marriage,he was in his mid 40's before he got married.


 

 

 

So?

 

Let your brother and his wife worry about their own marriage.

 

They really don't need you meddling in their affairs, and stirring up trouble where there isn't any.

 

Just butt out and MYOB.

 

You are so un kind, what is wrong with you?


 

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Re: does this sound strange?

Very strange. My DD is divorced and we all had dinner yeterday with her ex and his mother. It was a beautiful day. Even after the divorce we still get along very well.

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Re: does this sound strange?


@goldensrbest wrote:

A mother,and adult son,he is in his 50's going out for thanksgiving, his wife,her sister,and brother having thanksgiving separate at there place?


@goldensrbest

 

Well, it's possible that the marriage has completely deteriorated and a divorce is coming after the holidays.   A lot of people file for divorce in January and February.  

 

Or perhaps the son is looking for excuses to avoid being with his wife?