@RinaRina
I need you to put out the cigarette and throw the rest of them out in the garbage can and pour water on them so you can't retrieve them (I used to smoke).
Now I need you to read what I am writing here and 'listen' and pay attention.
Rina, you did nothing wrong. You are not a veterinarian. You relied on medical professionals to advise you on the best way to manage your little one's disease.
In animals, just like in people, medication that is given for one condition often has side effects. In the beginning, the drugs help, so I'd like you to remember that the medication helped your little one for a long period of time before the side effects kicked and unintended consequences materialized.
What matters above all, is that when the time came to give your little one back to God, you recognized it and gave her a peaceful and good death.
I cannot stress enough how important a good death is. It is equally important as a good life.
You need to know that she loved you when she was here and she continues to love you. My faith tells me that you will see each other again one day.
Please try to take comfort in that she is no longer suffering. She is pain free and has freedom of movement, full range of motion and is again the happy little spirit like she was when she was younger.
(If there was a way for me to legally get away with laying into your neighbor with a bat, I would do it for you).
There are times when you must speak, not because you are going to change the opposing side, but because if you do not speak, they have changed you.