I WAS both until I bought a Brahmin on sale at Dillards.
Oh my gosh, you can tell the difference in quality vs the 2 above brands.
The stitching is "close and tight", my bag looks exactly like the day I received it and it comes with me everyday and everywhere.
The pockets inside are nice, and above all, I bought the matching checkbook wallet and I thought Coach's wallets were nice, this one
is so much better.
I'm hooked and just received the Dream Copa Cabana and that is truly one of the better prints.
Brahmins look distinguished in my opinion. Not all styles and colors are for "everyone", I think they design their bags for certain age groups.
The Dooney outlet store has some great sales and I might go back someday but most of all it's what you enjoy and I think you can't go wrong with any of these brands.