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feline groovy · ‎07-29-2014

Healing hugs, good vibes, and positive energy to you and your young son...

IamMrsG · ‎08-29-2010

Hsawaknow, it's been my experience that when going through a rough patch, sometimes the best you can do is to remember it is temporary. You're in the midst of a black storm right now, but the sun is shining and the birds are singing on the other side. You will come through it one day.

In the meantime, the advice you've been given to volunteer somewhere is good. Focusing your attention on someone else will give your mind and spirit respite.

Strive for respect instead of attention. It lasts longer.

feline groovy · ‎07-29-2014

@dooBdoo wrote:
(((@hsawaknow))) I haven't experienced this, but I do know what it's like to have clinical depression and anxiety. There are support groups in most locales for a variety of things -- have you looked for those? Have you considered volunteering somewhere? Giving to others is such a good way to remind ourselves that we're not alone in this world. Isolation isn't a good thing over an extended period of time and it can even make things seem worse than they are. It's wonderful you have a therapist. What has sh/e suggested you do?

And many online.

Say Nay · ‎03-12-2010

@HappyDaze wrote:
@MyGirlsMom wrote:
@betteb wrote:
@Snowpuppy wrote:
On 2-2-2015 she posted this:

Re: what would you do?

‎02-05-2015 09:44 PM
Thank you for your tips. I live in the Bay Area ( Silicon Valley) its a 3 stone white gold platinim diamond ring and it cost 6,000.00 I know I won't get that price but was hoping for 1/2 at least. As for the house my ex wanted to give me 25,000.00 now and wait 5 years to pay me the rest based on an old appraisel. I know the house is worth 700,000.00 at least. It was court ordered for independent appraisal and then it will be decided in regards to sale. 48 more days of waiting and stressing this messy divorce.
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Thanks Snowpuppy. SMH
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..me too.
Why do people do this?

All of you need to read the thread where that quote was taken from. The OP said she had to rent a room.

Please stop this.

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feline groovy · ‎07-29-2014

@Snowpuppy wrote:
My point was on 2-2-2015 she asked about how to pawn her rings because she had no money. She got more than 50 responses for assistance. She took no one's advice tho several had said they had to make that same tough decision at one point in their own lives.

They have a house worth at least $700k and she's renting a room?

She said she "doesn't qualify" for SSI (or perhaps SSD if she filed on her spouse).

It all doesn't add up.

Hey, there's nothing like instantly assuming then snap-judging, right?

There's always more than meets the eyes.

feline groovy · ‎07-29-2014

@garmer wrote:
@betteb wrote:
@Snowpuppy wrote:
On 2-2-2015 she posted this:

Re: what would you do?

‎02-05-2015 09:44 PM
Thank you for your tips. I live in the Bay Area ( Silicon Valley) its a 3 stone white gold platinim diamond ring and it cost 6,000.00 I know I won't get that price but was hoping for 1/2 at least. As for the house my ex wanted to give me 25,000.00 now and wait 5 years to pay me the rest based on an old appraisel. I know the house is worth 700,000.00 at least. It was court ordered for independent appraisal and then it will be decided in regards to sale. 48 more days of waiting and stressing this messy divorce.
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Thanks Snowpuppy. SMH

What is your point, SP and B? Please be kind. She's been having a hard time for a while now. There but for the G of G...

Always.

And for every single one of us.

skuggles · ‎11-20-2013

I hope for the best for you. Connection is the answer. Make a few starting tomorrow. As hard as it may be, reach out ... it's worth the risk. Mend fences and ask for new beginnings. Give love, and you will receive it. Things will move at a snail's pace at first, but keep hoping and keep reaching out. Let any false starts fall quickly away. Get right up and start again. Good luck.

betteb · ‎03-09-2010

@Smaug wrote:
@HappyDaze wrote:
@MyGirlsMom wrote:
@betteb wrote:
@Snowpuppy wrote:
On 2-2-2015 she posted this:

Re: what would you do?

‎02-05-2015 09:44 PM
Thank you for your tips. I live in the Bay Area ( Silicon Valley) its a 3 stone white gold platinim diamond ring and it cost 6,000.00 I know I won't get that price but was hoping for 1/2 at least. As for the house my ex wanted to give me 25,000.00 now and wait 5 years to pay me the rest based on an old appraisel. I know the house is worth 700,000.00 at least. It was court ordered for independent appraisal and then it will be decided in regards to sale. 48 more days of waiting and stressing this messy divorce.
***********************************************************8
Thanks Snowpuppy. SMH
***

..me too.
Why do people do this?
All of you need to read the thread where that quote was taken from. The OP said she had to rent a room.

Please stop this.

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Ok, my apologies to all.

It's God's job to judge the terrorists. It's our mission to arrange the meeting. U.S. Marines

Say Nay · ‎03-12-2010

betteb

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feline groovy · ‎07-29-2014

@IamMrsG wrote:
Hsawaknow, it's been my experience that when going through a rough patch, sometimes the best you can do is to remember it is temporary. You're in the midst of a black storm right now, but the sun is shining and the birds are singing on the other side. You will come through it one day.

In the meantime, the advice you've been given to volunteer somewhere is good. Focusing your attention on someone else will give your mind and spirit respite.

And it really boosts your self-worth and self-esteem, as you're valuable to others even if you can't yet help yourself.

There are also ways to 'virtual volunteer' online; just Google it. VolunteerMatch.org is a great website, too.