Should he Stay or Should he go ? - Page 41

SaRina · ‎04-17-2015

She's contemplating it @sharke.

I mean.... contemplating the relationship. ;-)

Goodie2shoes · ‎04-30-2012

sharke wrote :

This is better then my soap opera

So, what happened ? She kick him to the curb or is he still in the loop?

That's funny ! my situation is a real concern for me but I do have a sense of humor so thanks for the comment, made me laugh. Yesterday I posted that I did not discuss my concern with my boyfriend, we had a great weekend as usual and I have decided to give it more time. I did not kick him to the curb. Soap Opera ??

EatWell · ‎12-31-2012

He is probably concerned about protecting his assets. If he got married, and divorced, there would be community property issues.

Stay the course with him, if you find the relationship fullfilling, in the bedroom, and out.

Good luck.

Noel7 · ‎03-09-2010

@Goodie2shoes wrote:
sharke wrote :
This is better then my soap opera
So, what happened ? She kick him to the curb or is he still in the loop?

That's funny ! my situation is a real concern for me but I do have a sense of humor so thanks for the comment, made me laugh. Yesterday I posted that I did not discuss my concern with my boyfriend, we had a great weekend as usual and I have decided to give it more time. I did not kick him to the curb. Soap Opera ??

@Goodie2shoes

Does he have children? Hung brought up a good point.

SharkE · ‎08-19-2010

Thanks for update

Yeah, I believe she had said he had kids.

Hope, she's happy.

Noel7 · ‎03-09-2010

@SharkE wrote:
Thanks for update
Yeah, I believe she had said he had kids.

Hope, she's happy.

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Thanks @SharkE

That's a good reason for him not to get married, he may not want the legal hassle there can be with a second wife. I've told the story of my best friend losing control of her fourth generation home because it went to her dad when her mom died, and dad remarried and left everything (that wasn't his) to his second gold digger wife. The disabled grandson was kicked to the curb.

ROMARY · ‎04-28-2010

Noel: Yes, I've seen that happen several times. The widower finds a new wife within a year or two, and then leaves (in a will/trust) almost everything to the new wife. .

'More or less', 'Right or wrong', 'In general', and 'Just thinking out loud ' (as usual).

Isobel Archer · ‎04-04-2015

@ROMARY wrote:
Noel: Yes, I've seen that happen several times. The widower finds a new wife within a year or two, and then leaves (in a will/trust) almost everything to the new wife. .

Maybe that's what she's hoping for.

KathyPet · ‎03-09-2010

The OP was in a relationship for 40 years with another man and brought not one but two children into the world without benefit of a legal relationship with their father. EVidently she managed to suppress or overlook her pangs of conscience during that relationship but now at the age of 66 she has decided she won't be happy without a ring on her finger. Unbelievable!