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[esmerelda]

@Pqfan  I think you need to sit down and talk to him about how you’re feeling and your fears. He may not have any idea.

[cherry]

Are you afraid?

[esmerelda]

OMG @cherry   🙄

[Pqfan]

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@cherry wrote:

Are you afraid?

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No.

I just feel like their bond is bothering me.

I just haven't told him that.

I am not even sure he would give it up.

So I have to go.

[cherry]

I am glad to hear that. I was afraid you were  living in fear

[cherry]

How much time  do you have before the move?

[QueenDanceALot]

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@Pqfan wrote:

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@QueenDanceALot wrote:

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@Pqfan wrote:

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@QueenDanceALot wrote:

If he has been at all abusive, verbally or physically, you must get out now.

Did he tell you he is moving and you need to find somewhere else to live?

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@QueenDanceALotNo he actually thinks I am happy.

I am good at hiding my feelings.

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@Pqfan 

I am confused again.

Does he expect you to move with him?

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Yes. He said he wants me to have a nicer house.

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@Pqfan 

Well, you tell him that you want to have a nicer boyfriend.

And do not move with him.  Do what you have to do to stand on your own two feet.

[NickNack]

I wouldn't like it either, but I think you may possibly be jealous for no reason.  How long did you know him before you moved in with him?  Did you move in with him because you were out of money?

[jellyBEAN]

Pearls today, panties tomorrow.

Danger Will Robinson, Danger.

You need to make YOUR LIFE YOUR PRIORITY and don't rely on anyone else.

[kitcat51]

My late husband stayed friends with an ex..they were friends who gave a relationship a go, it didn't work out & they stayed friends so instead of fretting about it when we dated, I got to know her & she became my friend too. Your boyfriend told you they're friends so believe him or let him go...you can't build a life with someone you don't trust. My advice..stop being jealous, get to know his ex, decide if he's someone you can trust & if you can't you already know what you need to do. Best wishes.