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09-13-2019 02:22 PM
Unless he's the only man around, I think you know what to do.
09-13-2019 02:22 PM
@Pqfan wrote:He is also moving us to the town where she lives.
Okay, now that does not sound good for you at all.
09-13-2019 02:23 PM
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09-13-2019 02:24 PM
Sweetie go to a womans shelter ASAP. There might be an organization that can help you
09-13-2019 02:25 PM
@Pqfan wrote:
@QueenDanceALot wrote:
Saying that he is fixing the pearls for her is a giant red flag unless he's a jeweler.
Your posts are very clear that you see what's happening and you don't wnat to stay in the relationship. I think that's a very healthy response.
I am sorry you are so sad. I agree that you need OUT and and the sooner the better.
@QueenDanceALotThanks. I kept trying to ignore this feeling and sweep it under the rug but I can't do it any longer.
I was in a relationship a number of years ago where I ignored the sirens going off and it did not end well. I KNEW I should have stopped the relationship but kept hoping the sirens were just me being a little crazy.
09-13-2019 02:26 PM
@cherry wrote:You have that much going for you. That is a big plus..A ray of sunlight
I agree with @cherry . I think you have to make a plan, but in the meantime, try not to fall into a deep hole of depression. Think positive, find positive. You are not tied financially to him meaning you aren't on a lease with him, etc. It doesn't sound like he is physically abusive. I realize there are all kinds of abuse, but for right now, you are safe. Start job searching. Perhaps go to church. You need to surround yourself with people that are good and that you may need to lean on. And as @cherry said, set a date to leave and work toward that goal.
I wish you all the best. We are all here for you!
09-13-2019 02:28 PM
09-13-2019 02:28 PM
@QueenDanceALot wrote:
@Pqfan wrote:He is also moving us to the town where she lives.
So you aren't living together?
If he is moving then can't you stay where you are?
Maybe I'm confused about the circumstances.
I am living with him now and he is moving. This is his place we are in.
09-13-2019 02:30 PM
This is considered abuse
You may be experiencing physical abuse if your partner has done or repeatedly does any of the following tactics of abuse:
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