Re: DOES IT MATTER TO YOU

Tinkrbl44 · ‎08-23-2010

@cherry wrote:
I am sure you meant no harm @Tinkrbl44 but sometimes it is best not to ask questions ,and just let people vent,unless they ask for advice or help

@cherry

Well, thank you for sharing even though I didn't ask for advice or help. When people post on a public message board, it's obvious all sorts of comments will be made. Considering what she had previously posted about her life, it was a fair question.

For all the posters here ... whether you're married, single, with someone or alone, Happy Valentines Day. Celebrate yourself ... and anyone else you want to include.

cherry · ‎03-09-2010

I know you didn't ask me but I felt bad for her. Sometimes people just need to get it out of their head, but it doesn't mean they want to go beyond what they have said..I hope it gave her some release, just to be able to get it off of her chest

DiAnne · ‎09-22-2010

I was at Costco today and there were many men in a feeding frenzy around the roses so some people must people in this "fake" holiday!

lovescats · ‎03-10-2010

@ahoymate wrote:

hopi, & other, whoever:
It's not a bad day or depression it's how some women like to elevate themselves at others expense. Surely, you are old enough to have experienced this? High school behavior.

to me it is the title of thread that doesn't give people a chance not to open it if they're not celebrating valentines day so I think it is a little bit of elevating themselves even if that wasn't their intention they should realize it could be read that way

jubilant · ‎06-10-2010

Usually we get each other cards. Sometimes he gets me flowers. My birthday was the first week of Feb. and he always gets me something nice so I told him no need to get me anything for VD. Between the snow and ice, running back and forth to the rehab center for my sister, and checking in on Mom every day, we just didn't make a big deal out of it this year. Sometimes traditions can be broken and it's ok. I really just wanted to sleep! We did catch a lunch out close to home.

Rockycoast · ‎03-02-2016

@Tinkrbl44 wrote:
Yeah, I was waiting for that. I know what some are thinking. It's "her" fault for staying.

Not looking for pity or to be judged and I don't want to have to defend myself. I shared because of where I am and when I began reading the post I felt I wanted to comment. It helps to share, so I've been told. Have a happy day

@rms1954

No ... no ... no .... so sorry if it was taken that way, but I wasn't blaming you or asking you to defend yourself. I was just genuinely curious.

@Tinkrbl44 you were not the only one curious about Imtep's post. I also wondered as you did. You were not doing any of the things accused of. It was an honest question. Nothing more.

Tinkrbl44 · ‎08-23-2010

@Rockycoast wrote:
@Tinkrbl44 wrote:
Yeah, I was waiting for that. I know what some are thinking. It's "her" fault for staying.

Not looking for pity or to be judged and I don't want to have to defend myself. I shared because of where I am and when I began reading the post I felt I wanted to comment. It helps to share, so I've been told. Have a happy day

@rms1954

No ... no ... no .... so sorry if it was taken that way, but I wasn't blaming you or asking you to defend yourself. I was just genuinely curious.

@Tinkrbl44 you were not the only one curious about Imtep's post. I also wondered as you did. You were not doing any of the things accused of. It was an honest question. Nothing more.