Re: Big 0 birthday

CalminHeart · ‎03-09-2010

@Carolina925 wrote:
The big "0" birthdays have never bothered me, something exciting happened with each decade. However, when I turned 70, I felt like I'd been hit with something, and something not nice. My stamina has dwindled even though I haven't changed much in what I do. I did retire in '16 and my job pretty much involved lots of activity, but I've started doing housework and yardwork more than I ever could when I was working. Daily walks and trying to get in 8,000 to 10,000 steps daily doesn't seem to help. And don't get me started on the saggy skin and fat pockets where there never were any before.

When I turned 30, I thought it would be terrible since in my youth the mantra was not to trust anyone over 30! Thinking back, I believe my 50s and 60s were the best.

One great thing about the 70s is that I'm forging new old friendships that seem to be much more stronger than before when other things were on my plate. I've reconnected with two casual friends from my high school days that have become my best friends now.

You can feel "weird" but make sure to look for all your blessings in each day above ground.

Yes, 70 is hitting me too. I'm living life and enjoying it.

CalminHeart · ‎03-09-2010

@Imaoldhippie wrote:
Enjoy having birthdays it beats the alternative.

Living has been denied to many, enjoy every birthday.

So true. It's interesting that you say this. My sister called at 9am to tell me her husband died. I spent the day with her. She wouldn't let me stay overnight but she called about every 2 hours. I'm going to be with her again today.

Othereeeen · ‎03-13-2010

@qvcaddition

88 WOW!!!

You are my inspriation on this thread!!!

I hope to be as nimble as you are when I reach your age....it's fantastic...

I would guess you've been active all your life?

I have people tell me, at 68, to "hire someone" to do my mowing and yard work, I should "forget veggie gardening and buy my veggies in the store", hire someone to shovel or snowblow....to rake...pick up sticks and branches after a storm and burn them...in other words...to do ALL the things that give me exercise and movement each day.

I say NO WAY.

I'm only 68 ...what the H will I do all day? Sit on my behind and watch these paid people while I play on Farcebook or watch TeeVee and get as wide as my Buick?

No thanks!!!

I intend to keep at it as you have, until I no longer can...and I will fight every inch of the way to remain active.

I know some people cannot do that...but I also know many who can and probably should for thier health...but to each his own.

All I know is it feels GREAT to keep moving...even if you're tired at days end ( or take a nap in the afternoon sometimes!!)

After all...we're ALL headed for the same place in the end.....

Pecky · ‎03-10-2010

I read this saying that puts things in perspective. "Everyone is lucky to be young, but not everyone is lucky enough to grow old".

qvcaddition · ‎03-10-2010

@Othereeeen

I love your way of thinking. If anyone can keep active, they should do so.

I started exercising at age 23 before it became popular for women to do so, but I was always outside of the box. I started with Jack La lanne and his belt and record.. I firmly believe, the exercise helped to get to where I am. It is never to late to start some kind of movement however small.

I also went back to school at age 72 got a scholarship, was Valedictorian, and made the Dean's honor roll. So important to keep the mind active as well as the body. Looking to go back now and get another degree. Just to keep the mind active and be around people and learn from the younger generation. We are never too old to learn.

Your reply was great and it inspired me. Yes, I am tired at the end of the day, but still feel like I am alive and kicking.

I am fortunate,my health has never been a problem, some do have health issues and can't do everything, but they can do something.

One day at a time and keep moving. Like you, if I hired out, what would I do with all my time?

Blessings to you.

Mom2Dogs · ‎03-09-2010

@CalminHeart I get it, I will be 69 this year...yikes. Like you -in my head I am not that age and don't feel it at all.

I also still do a lot of heavy work in the yard, just yesterday I spent most of the day on my knees, resetting brick and laying down a weed barrier...first. This morning I was stiff but I need to get that portion done yet this week - I hate leaving a project unfinished, but I needed a few more bricks...but I had to work today, maybe tomorrow I can finish up.

I am grateful that I can still work in my yard as I broke my shoulder in December and worried about still being able to do what I was used to doing....but even tho my shoulder is a bit stiff, I can do what I want to do.

My biggest gripe would be my skin, it is showing it's age especially on my upper arms and hands...I hate that tissue paper look.

I hope you enjoy your birthday and continued good health.

Othereeeen · ‎03-13-2010

@qvcaddition

All I can say is....ONWARD to 100!!!

When I read a post like yours and SEE that number...88....it makes me less fearful of aging just as a number's sake...

Keep it up!!!

And not only 88....but a hugely prolific and articulate poster on this board and I bet many others...

Mary Bailey · ‎03-09-2010

I remember when my oldest son turned ten,

he told everyone that he was turning the big one-oh

conlt · ‎03-16-2010

LOL, I did not know what the Big 0 was. I will be the big 66 in less than 2 weeks. I can't believe that I am this age and where did time go. I never complain, I had a friend who was diagnosed at 49 with stage 4 colon cancer and died 9 months late at age 50. I passed by the cemetery today and cried a little bit. She would have done anything to be 66, even 55 at the time. She was convinced that if she could live until 55, that they would have a cure. She died 13 years ago on July 16th. As I passed by the cemetery, I told her that I was going for my colonoscopy. That would have made her happy. At the time she was not old enough for a colonoscopy yet had stage 4 colon cancer at age 49. No family history. She was a bubbly person, and talked 10 people into doing a colonoscopy at the time. So in honor of Kimberly, I am happy to be 66 and fairly healthy.

I embrace my age and the wisdom that comes with it. Take care of your health, age is our biggest risk factor for disease.

Coastalcarolina · ‎04-02-2015

@LTT1, I have always thought you looked lovely in your picture! I hope I look that pretty when I turn 70! No wonder the gentlemen were checking you out 😁