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Valued Contributor
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I am so sad and sorry for your loss @sarahpanda  I hope you find comfort and peace as you walk forward.  

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So sorry for your loss.  Give yourself lots of time.  Grieving is a process and different for all of us.  May you find peace.

Valued Contributor
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Feelings of love for your husband do not die with his passing...you will find yourself smiling as you remember your life with him.  Yes, it takes a little time.  Hopefully you have your own interests to fill your days ahead.

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I can relate to your pain.  This Tuesday will be the  3rd Anniv, of my Hubby's passing.  We were married 61 yrs when I lost him.  It's still painful, but I take comfort in the fact that he is out of pain .  He had dementia & stage 4 CA.  It was 5yrs of  horrible suffering especiailly  during Covid.  I selfishly want him back but I know he is in a better place.  I wish you peace & comfort in the days ahead my dear!!! 😢💔

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I'm so sorry for your loss @sarahpanda. As others have said no one can understand how life shattering this is unless they have experienced it.  It has been such a short time,  of course you are reeling and feeling devastated and lost. Be kind to yourself as you navigate this new life. It takes however long it takes, and that's OK. 

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@sarahpanda I am so sorry for the loss of your dear husband.  There are many of us on the board that have been married for 40 to 50 years and know that this could be us.  

 

I have no answer, but just take it a day at a time, thank goodness that is all you have to do.  

 

I pray that you have family and friends close by that can hold you up with love.  If you are so inclined, lay this burden at the feet of our good Lord and lean on him in the days ahead. 

 

Take care~

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@sarahpanda I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you.

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I am so sorry to read of the loss of your husband.  I can not imagine the sorrow you are going through. So I offer my prayers and condolences  for you. 

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@sarahpanda 

Wishing comfort, peace and healing for you.🕊 With Heartfelt ❤️ condolences 🙏🏽 

 

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First, my sincere condolences. {hugs}

 

I haven't read the replies but I just have to say that love doesn't end !! He's closer than you think, you just can't see him for now and you can talk to him all the time.

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