Among Friends

[geezerette]

@sarahpanda 

I am so sorry for your loss. 💔

I tend to agree with @Roscoe the Rascal that unless you have experienced it yourself, it's hard for anyone to realize how difficult it is.  Unfortunately many of us here have experienced it.  So although every situation is a little different, we do have an idea of what you're going through.

There's no getting around it, it's rough.  You just get through it, even though you think you won't.

Again, my deepest sympathies.  Your DH will be always be in your heart.♥️ 

[Mom2Dogs]

@sarahpanda   I was thinking about you the other day...I am very sorry to read your husband passed away.  Take care.

[branny]

so sorry.

[SoCal Bred]

@sarahpanda 

So very sorry to read about the loss of your beloved husband, my deepest condolences to you and yours..

[kathie66]

@sarahpanda I am so very sorry. My heart goes out to you.

[catter70]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'm sure it must be a terrible thing to go thru.I hope you have family and friends to be by your side at this time for support. 

[ciao_bella]

@sarahpanda  First, my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your husband.  I know what you're going through.  My husband passed away, at home, several years ago.   It's very difficult, but as others have stated, lean on family, friends and, I do recommend group grief counseling.  I couldn't imagine myself going to a group expressing my feelings, but every one of those people there have the same situation.  You don't have to speak, if you don't want to, but listening to others allows your heart and inner feelings of loss to heal in a way that you would never expect would help.  Group grief counseling can be found many ways; looking online in your area, through hospital social workers, churches, etc.  Please give it a try.  

[meallen616]

[Shanus]

@sarahpanda   I'm so sorry for what your grief now, but know that a broken heart is the sign of your love for your DH. 

Please give yourself time and grace. Be gentle with yourself and cry all you want. This is a huge change in your life and I hope in weeks and months to come, you'll find some peace. 

[FranandZoe]

I'm so sorry for your loss - you have my deep sympathy.  I know how hard it is - my husband will be gone 3 years in December and I still struggle.  I so envy you that you were with him when he passed.  My husband was in a nursing facility and he passed away 12 hours after I left him that afternoon.  I'm so sorry I wasn't with him.   It gets easier over time but that's not to say it's ever easy.  Take care.  And don't be too hard on yourself - let yourself grieve for however long it takes.