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Regular Contributor
Posts: 204
Registered: ‎03-10-2010

Ladies, we've had another devastating loss in our family.  My last brother passed away on Wednesday.  It was heartbreaking to sit in his room and know there was nothing left to do but hold him and talk to him.

 

Last June, I lost another brother.     And on May 30th (tomorrow), will be two years since my husband and I lost our only daughter.  

 

I know everyone says, God will not add what we can't handle but we're there. 

 

Our family is just heartbroken.

 

Thank you ladies and gents.  I know alot of you know where I'm at right now.  You've been there also.

 

Have a blessed day.

Trusted Contributor
Posts: 1,597
Registered: ‎03-18-2010

I will certainly pray for you.  We lost our youngest son at age 33 from a rare form of cancer on 12/10/10 and a nephew of ours look his life in 2008 at the age of 32.  If there is some way I can get your email address and I would happy to communicate with you personally.  Only my faith in God has gotten us through.  God bless.

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Posts: 1,177
Registered: ‎06-28-2011

Classylady, I am sending my sympathy to you.  Even though loss is a normal part of life---the hard part, what you have been through in such a short period of time is mind boggling.  I am so sorry for the loss of your brothers and for the upcoming anniversary of the loss of your daughter.

 

I wonder if you and your husband need a much deserved rest, perhaps to a place that brings you peace and serenity.  I know for me, the mountains or the water provide comfort.  It may be a different place for you.  Do things that are best for you, and say no to what does not bring you comfort right now.  Tune out the negatives, whether those negatives are people or "things".

 

Thinking of you. 

Respected Contributor
Posts: 4,833
Registered: ‎03-09-2010

Prayers going to Heaven, and healing hugs coming your way.  Yes, many of us have been there, but few so deeply.  God bless.

Trusted Contributor
Posts: 1,377
Registered: ‎03-10-2010

I'm so sorry for your losses.  Six years ago we lost three parents within 7 months.  It took a good long time to understand and deal with.  May memories of these loved ones bring you joy.  

Honored Contributor
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Registered: ‎01-27-2014

I'm so sorry for your loss(es). I know there's really nothing anyone can say to truly help; just know my heart is with you.

Esteemed Contributor
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Registered: ‎03-09-2010

I am so very sorry.Sending prayers for strength for you and your family {{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}

Valued Contributor
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Registered: ‎04-20-2012

with sympathy & prayers for you & your family.  🌼

Blowing out someone else's candle doesn't make yours brighter.
Honored Contributor
Posts: 9,514
Registered: ‎06-10-2010

So sorry for yet another loss for you.  Yes, sometimes it is hard to understand.  I think many of us identify with that.  Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.  

Honored Contributor
Posts: 8,500
Registered: ‎05-08-2010

So sorry for the loss of your loved ones.  Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers for strength to sustain you in the days ahead.

Fear not Brothers and Sisters! I have read THE BOOK..........we win!!!