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Re: Question about Divorce and Wedding Rings

I personally like the idea of having a pendant made.

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Re: Question about Divorce and Wedding Rings

autumnnj, some people wear inherited engagement rings, just switch them to the other hand.  Bands can be moved around and are versatile stackables.

 

The one reason I would now be conservative about re-working rings into other things, is that I've done that quite a bit in the past, and it is expensive to do.  There's no guarantee that you will like the result better than the original.

 

I like the earlier suggestion of just switching the ring over to the other hand as a lovely cocktail ring, and see if you can overlook its past meaning to you.  If not, then you have all the other options to consider...

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I think I'd put the stones into something completely different.  For the most part, the whole halo think kind of screams bridal to me, even with a colored gemstone.

 

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Re: Question about Divorce and Wedding Rings

Had the stone reset into a VERY different design and use the gold from both for melting down for the new ring. I now have a gorgeous ring that cost me very little to create; you would never know it was once an engagement ring and a wedding band. : )

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Everyone is showing halo settings now days, at least on TV.  So Bridal is the last thing I think of when I see one of these. 

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Re: Question about Divorce and Wedding Rings

I do love the "Halo" look.  However, something new will come along and even the Halo will be dated.

A creative jeweler can assist you in designing something totally different.  My first diamond was 'matched' by my second (&last) husband for a set of stud earrings.  Now that diamond is in a custom bangle bracelet with several other diamonds graduating in size.  

My theory is never waste a good stone!

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My mother had two diamond solitaire rings, one was hers, the other her mother's.  After she died, my sister had each made into a pendant for her two daughters.  I gave sister the diamond ring our aunt left me.   I took all the turquoise which I like better than diamonds. 

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Thanks everyone for your ideas.  It makes sense to wear it on the right hand to see if I am actually comfortable doing so before deciding if I want to repace the stone.  If not, a completely new design is probably a good idea.

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@autumnnj wrote:

I love my oval halo engagement ring and was thinking about repacing the center stone with a pink stone, but then wondered if I would really wear it.   I also have two diamond bands.  I really like the rings but maybe they just need to go away?  What would/did you do with your wedding set?  Thanks!


Sounds like a nice idea.  You could sell it if you wanted and then buy something else with the color stone you want.  Do you like Morganite?  I love this color of Beryl.  Kunzite too, but you wouldn't be able to wear it all the time (especially during the day) because of it's tendency to fade.

 

 

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