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I wasn't sure where to post this question 

 

i have adult childres who i have always gone over board buying  presents

 I am going to have to cut back which i really hate to do..

 

but   just wondering what you usually give to your adult childen for Christmas?

 

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I give everyone cash except my friend who is in a senior care home.

 

It's easy and appreciated.  Everyone can get what they want...I never have to do returns or waste my money on things they don't like/want.

 

My parents always did the same.  I was very grateful.

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Amazon gift cards


A very Merry Christmas, And a Happy New Year
Lets hope its a good one
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Re: Adult Children

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My family consists largely of forty-something adults who've done well and have everything they need so gift-giving is now limited to the younger kids only.  Gag gifts for the adults.  I think many families now do this.

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My daughter is a big Amazon shopper so I give her a gift card and let her shop for herself and she loves it. For my son and grandson (his 24 yo son ) they are big Steelers fans so last yr I gave them Steelers team shirts which they loved. I will probably give them gift cards this year, it's just easier to let them shop for themselves and they love it as well and no stress on me. 

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I give gift cards and checks. My youngest daughter is 34. She likes this. My oldest daughter and her husband are well established in their careers. I give them a gift card to their favorite restaurant. Neither of my girls need or want anything. But every year since they were young I have given them pajamas. I think if I stopped this they would probably ask me "what no pajamas this year?' It's just a tradition.  I also give everyone in the family 5 scratch off lottery tickets. We all have a great time scratching off numbers and hoping for a big win. For us Christmas is getting together for a good time and a great meal. Presents not necessary.

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Adults in my family do not exchange gifts.   We just buy for the children 

 

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Sadly, the last few years the adult children have asked only for grocery store and gas station gift cards. I have given gift cards to Omaha steaks.

 

Not even Amazon, etc. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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If you actually want to gift something, a Holiday ornament, holiday chocolate or other holiday dressed treats would be nice.

 

Food like from Omaha steaks is nice.

 

You can send a small amount of cash or small amount gift card from Amazon or another place they shop.

 

If you just can't afford gifts this year, I would just tell them, send a card.

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I give them gift certificates to their favorite deli-bakery, I know they will be used & enjoyed.