I've never seen Jill being rude to anyone at any time, and I do watch her shows often. I am sure she was using a little light humor.
But I sure agree with Alsee. It's the first Graver show I've seen for a while - her rude behavior drives me right to the remote. She was interrupting and cutting in as usual last night and if it had been anyone but Jill I would have turned her off right away. Jill was doing a magnificent job of keeping her cool, and doing her job.
While I'm being catty, I have to add that that orange/leopard thing she had on was the absolute worst piece I've ever seen her wear. Halloween anyone?