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On 3/30/2015 SoX said:
On 3/30/2015 dooBdoo said:
On 3/30/2015 SoX said:
On 3/30/2015 traveler said:

Whenever I read a forum I remember Catfish, tallhotblonde and The Night Listener. Always with a pinch of skepticism.

I just watched this last Friday, I think it was ... a true story!

Hi, SoX! Yes, it's a true story. There's also a documentary, "Talhotblond." Chilling... and important for people to realize they have no idea who's on the other side of that internet nickname.

{#emotions_dlg.unsure}

Hi, dooB! It certainly was an eye-opener ... I also wonder about all these dating sites. Who knows what kind of kooks you'll run into ...

edit: just saw your amended post above after I posted this.

It's worrisome, that's for sure, even with sites that run background checks.

Few things reveal your intellect and your generosity of spirit—the parallel powers of your heart and mind—better than how you give feedback.~Maria Popova
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On 3/29/2015 LoriMI said:

OK, here are my stats.....I don't make a lot of money.

But I have: a great family, wonderful friends, a roof over my head, food on the table, the love of my wonderful husband. It doesn't get any better! God did provide for me!

Must be the name lol - same here! We don't make a lot of money, but we do well. We have a great family, nice home (we're in the process of building one in a new state, so I haven't been on the boards as much lately - we're in transition), we all love one another and I've been married for almost 12 years now. I feel very fortunate. I don't need to try to be anyone else, whether I'm meeting you online or in-person.

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The way I look at is that I take posts pretty much at face value but with caution. If someone tells whoppers on line, I have no idea if they are or not.... unless it's exposed in some way and even then, why would I care unless I'm involved? They are the ones that have to live with it, remember it, and turn off their computers and get on with their real lives, such as it is. No one really remembers what they say.

These people are usually very unhappy in their real lives and boosting their "story" on line is their way to feel better about themselves and their lives. Much like those who can't find anything good to say about anyone. They think it gives them power. It doesn't, it just makes the rest of the posters feel sorry for them.

The whole subject is very interesting to me because human nature is worth studying. I find this particular board far more gentle than most others I've been on. I realize it has its moments, but for the most part those who post here are kind, curious and want to discuss a myriad of subjects.

I like it here! {#emotions_dlg.biggrin}

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On 3/30/2015 Q4U said:

The way I look at is that I take posts pretty much at face value but with caution. If someone tells whoppers on line, I have no idea if they are or not.... unless it's exposed in some way and even then, why would I care unless I'm involved? They are the ones that have to live with it, remember it, and turn off their computers and get on with their real lives, such as it is. No one really remembers what they say.

These people are usually very unhappy in their real lives and boosting their "story" on line is their way to feel better about themselves and their lives. Much like those who can't find anything good to say about anyone. They think it gives them power. It doesn't, it just makes the rest of the posters feel sorry for them.

The whole subject is very interesting to me because human nature is worth studying. I find this particular board far more gentle than most others I've been on. I realize it has its moments, but for the most part those who post here are kind, curious and want to discuss a myriad of subjects.

I like it here! {#emotions_dlg.biggrin}

Q4U, Great post, and I like it here, too! I agree with you about studying and observing human nature. I think these quotes say a great deal about those who feel the need to boast about real or imagined possessions and activities:

"Tell me what you brag about and I’ll tell you what you lack." Spanish Proverb

“A bore is a person who opens his mouth and puts his feats in it.” Henry Ford

When all is said and done... each person must live with themselves.Smile

Few things reveal your intellect and your generosity of spirit—the parallel powers of your heart and mind—better than how you give feedback.~Maria Popova
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I don't know about fake posters but I do know one thing for sure, there are a lot of snobs on these boards. {#emotions_dlg.sad}

Don't worry, be Happy!
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On 3/30/2015 golfcartrider said:

I don't know about fake posters but I do know one thing for sure, there are a lot of snobs on these boards. {#emotions_dlg.sad}

OhOh... Did your "Be Oh So Nice" coupon expire?? Just joking {#emotions_dlg.lol}

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On 3/30/2015 seaside shopper said:
On 3/30/2015 golfcartrider said:

I don't know about fake posters but I do know one thing for sure, there are a lot of snobs on these boards. {#emotions_dlg.sad}

OhOh... Did your "Be Oh So Nice" coupon expire?? Just joking {#emotions_dlg.lol}

I was not being naughty, I was being honest and I will continue to be oh so nice as you put it. There are a lot of snobs that think they rule the boards and whether one is being naughty or nice they always have a come back. Posters like myself just can't win. I brought out the snark with nasty comments and now I bring out the snark with oh so nice comments. Go figure.{#emotions_dlg.huh}

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On 3/30/2015 golfcartrider said:
On 3/30/2015 seaside shopper said:
On 3/30/2015 golfcartrider said:

I don't know about fake posters but I do know one thing for sure, there are a lot of snobs on these boards. {#emotions_dlg.sad}

OhOh... Did your "Be Oh So Nice" coupon expire?? Just joking {#emotions_dlg.lol}

I was not being naughty, I was being honest and I will continue to be oh so nice as you put it. There are a lot of snobs that think they rule the boards and whether one is being naughty or nice they always have a come back. Posters like myself just can't win. I brought out the snark with nasty comments and now I bring out the snark with oh so nice comments. Go figure.{#emotions_dlg.huh}

I know... baffling, isn't it!?

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On 3/30/2015 seaside shopper said:
On 3/30/2015 golfcartrider said:
On 3/30/2015 seaside shopper said:
On 3/30/2015 golfcartrider said:

I don't know about fake posters but I do know one thing for sure, there are a lot of snobs on these boards. {#emotions_dlg.sad}

OhOh... Did your "Be Oh So Nice" coupon expire?? Just joking {#emotions_dlg.lol}

I was not being naughty, I was being honest and I will continue to be oh so nice as you put it. There are a lot of snobs that think they rule the boards and whether one is being naughty or nice they always have a come back. Posters like myself just can't win. I brought out the snark with nasty comments and now I bring out the snark with oh so nice comments. Go figure.{#emotions_dlg.huh}

I know... baffling, isn't it!?

Completely, but the few that are the snobs I can do without. I am making new friends on here that are so much nicer and sincere. Smile

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On 3/30/2015 golfcartrider said:
On 3/30/2015 Desertdi said:
On 3/30/2015 golfcartrider said:

Dahlings, I am hosting the King and Queen of England next week after that Angie and Brad are stopping by to say hello.Smile

Lizzie never gave Phil the title of "king"...............

Oooops, you caught me. Smile Guess I will just be entertaining Brad and Angie.Smile

Aw, it's OK..........by the way, I'm from the same hometown as Harrison and Hill......but I never met either one of them.................

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