Community Chat

[kitten809in]

well ladies he is showing his true colors. he has taken all the money he had hiddn in house and today i got a form from our bank as he wants to take m off joint bank account. I'm not signing until i talk to my lawyer. and i suspect he is trying to put another house we own in one of his children's name. i haven't asked for one single thing i just want out of this marriage. have been documenting everything  that is going on. I should have gotten a order of protection and he would have had to move out. but i didn't . will keep posting this bad drama as it happens. Oh we got e-mail fron a cousin that this man's only brother has lung cancer and as far as i know he has not called or gone to see his brother. when I asked him if he had called is answer was(I read the e-mail). just cold hearted

[Witchy Woman]

Well, this is non unusual.  I guess he thinks he's been hiding something from you, but you have it all figured out.  He thinks he can just take what he wants without consequence.

It does not work that way.  He will find out.

I'm impressed that you have a plan and will act on it.

This man is not worth worrying about.  Get out as soon as possible and live a happy and peaceful life. 

I'm sorry you have having to go through this, but you sound like a smart woman and I'm sure you will be just fine.

[goldensrbest]

Make sure you get half of both homes you two have.

[kitten809in]

thank you for the input. yes I have a plan. i have put a deposit with a moving co. Also i have a lawyer who is looking out for my interests. Three years ago my youngest son took his own life. when I got the call he took my cell phone and called our pastor. no arms to comfort nothing. then at the funeral i don't know where he was but it was not by my side. I thought I knew this man but he has a side that is beyond knowing. I was used to the lack of taking as I lived alone for 10 years before marrying again. should have stayed single. and He should have married the woman his late wife had picked out for him. So I am going to ask for all the law will allow and all the money I can get. Starting a new life single and in a new state. I have a dear grandson who bought a house for us to share in North Dakota. It is a very small town and I have been out there several times and I love it. also have a daughter there and 2 more grandchildren,.

[KingstonsMom]

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@kitten809in wrote:

thank you for the input. yes I have a plan. i have put a deposit with a moving co. Also i have a lawyer who is looking out for my interests. Three years ago my youngest son took his own life. when I got the call he took my cell phone and called our pastor. no arms to comfort nothing. then at the funeral i don't know where he was but it was not by my side. I thought I knew this man but he has a side that is beyond knowing. I was used to the lack of taking as I lived alone for 10 years before marrying again. should have stayed single. and He should have married the woman his late wife had picked out for him. So I am going to ask for all the law will allow and all the money I can get. Starting a new life single and in a new state. I have a dear grandson who bought a house for us to share in North Dakota. It is a very small town and I have been out there several times and I love it. also have a daughter there and 2 more grandchildren,.

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@kitten809in

It sounds like you have your life under control and can look forward to a happy life, surrounded by family that loves you, rather than being stuck in a loveless marriage!

Good for you and I wish you the best in your 'new' life!