@Plaid Pants2 wrote:
My dad is a Depression Era baby, born in 1927.
Whenever I think that he could use something, if I can afford it, I'll get it for him.
I'm happy to do that.
Recently, I got him a nice, warm blanket.
What did he do with it?
He used it as a couch cover.
*Sigh*
So, I bought him a couch cover.
Actually, he has a futon, but it functions as a couch.
Also, these apartments doesn't have a ceiling light in the living room, so I got him a torchier(sp) floor lamp.
When I gave it to him, he said, "I wish you wouldn't spend your money on me!".
Parents!
*LOL*
What are you going to do?
@Plaid Pants2
Oh boy ... my Dad has been gone for a few years now, but it looks like your Dad is from that same Depression-era stock.
I always felt badly when he would "reject" our gifts or complain when we bought him something. He really didn't know how to graciously accept a gift ... no matter how small. Over the years, my stepmother wore him down a bit, and I developed a sense of humor.
I finally found the most success with very practical gifts. A gift card for his favorite restaurant produced almost no resistance. He loved the old time westerns and old comedy teams and my sisters bought him DVD sets of some of the old shows. Since he lived in WNY, right at Lake Erie, the winters were long & cold, and large puzzles were actually enjoyed on snowy weekends.
Dad also loved to do DIY jobs and was quite the handyman for things around the house. One year my sisters & I got him a gift card for his favorite hardware store. Well, they didn't have "gift cards" there, so the owner wrote a really nice letter on business stationery, saying he had $300 on "his account". Dad then LOVED going to the hardware store and selecting what he needed, and saying "Put it on my account, Charlie". LOL
One year I was absolutely stumped and made the mistake of asking what he wanted for his birthday. Of course, he said oh don't spend my money on him, just get him a nice card. Well, I decided one card wasn't enough, so I bought about TEN really funny birthday cards (some from the dollar store) and started mailing them about a week before his birthday, one at a time, every couple days! Cracked everybody up ... including his mail man! A couple of the cards were signed "The Phantom".
Clearly, your post brought back a lot of memories!
Regardless of what you do, be sure to give him a big hug and tell him how happy you are that he's still here on earth! 