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Registered: ‎03-09-2010

When things go from bad to worse.....I'm really trying here

I just need to spew for a few minutes. It will be a boring spew because I can't go into much detail.

This has not been a great year for a number of reasons, health related, work stress - the usual that so many of us here deal with on a regular basis.

DH has asked me not to discuss some more bad news with anyone until after Christmas. It is the kind of news that will require us to make some major changes we wouldn't otherwise make. I won't say what it is but we had a talk last night and I pointed out the silver lining aspects of the situation and that made him feel better and more positive.

I don't feel better. I've been trying to hold it together for so many months now that I'm just about at the end of my rope. I want to talk to someone about this but he has asked me not to until after Christmas. Is that a reasonable request?

I need some help and I just don't know what to do. Can someone just please hold my hand for a minute?

I'm sorry for adding another tearful thread to the board.