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If you are positive about the 'silent treatment' and from what it stems (not just guessing, or assuming, but really know for sure), the I'd wash my hands of the whole thing. 

 

It isn't about getting even or ****** for tat, but simply eliminating people and situations that take up your time and effort, raise your blood pressure, because they are too controlling, moody, unkind or whatever.

 

Life is too short, and this is the kind of relationship that I'd just let drop. 

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Thank you to all for the input that you have given on this thread.

 

It sometimes is hard for me to stand up for myself but I always do even if it causes me discomfort.

 

I am the first person to admit when I have done something wrong but in this case I trully haven't.

 

They are toxic to me and my well being and they have got to go.

 

PQ

 

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Re: What the What!?

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@Pqfan wrote:

Thank you to all for the input that you have given on this thread.

 

It sometimes is hard for me to stand up for myself but I always do even if it causes me discomfort.

 

I am the first person to admit when I have done something wrong but in this case I trully haven't.

 

They are toxic to me and my well being and they have got to go.

 

PQ

 


@Pqfan  Atta girl!!!  I was going to say if you were going to send it to make sure you enclose a photocopy of one of your fingers or your backside to kiss and a note that you hope she enjoys it but never, ever ask you for anything again.

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@Pqfan wrote:

Thank you to all for the input that you have given on this thread.

 

It sometimes is hard for me to stand up for myself but I always do even if it causes me discomfort.

 

I am the first person to admit when I have done something wrong but in this case I trully haven't.

 

They are toxic to me and my well being and they have got to go.

 

PQ

 


They don't deserve you! That takes some nerve to ask you to do that.

Tell them to not let the screen door hit 'em on the way out.

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I myself would prob not buy something and send it...you may feel different....but if you DO decide...make sure you get payment for it before you mail it.....................

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"How this all got started:

 

I am friends with 2 people that this person doesn't like.

These 2 people have been so kind to me and I refused to give them up so she stopped speaking to me and also insults me because I won't let go of 2 people that have never done anything to me."

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Wow. This is so... high school. Do you really want to go back there? Ditch her.

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  @Pqfan I'm with you!! I wouldn't give that person the time of day!! I've had those kind of friends.At this stage in my life I only surround myself with people who support & encourage me.I don't have the time or patience to be told what to do or who do do it with.

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@Pqfan wrote:

@qualitygal wrote:

So, are you going to send it or not?


At this point they have a better shot at Santa Claus and Rudolf bringing it to them.Smiley LOL

 

How this all got started:

 

I am friends with 2 people that this person doesn't like.

These 2 people have been so kind to me and I refused to give them up so she stopped speaking to me and also insults me because I won't let go of 2 people that have never done anything to me.

 

I can't let this person dictate who I can or can't be friends with.

 

 


I would have 2 words for this person.  And they're not Merry Christmas or Happy Birthday.

 

 

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  1. @kelsey17@Really good point...money first and then take your time with the shopping and shipping....Pqfan you are extra busy night and day ....so you just haven't had an opportunity to process  "2 whats "request.
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Another point to consider:  where (what country) does this person live?  The reason I ask is if it is a country such as Korea or Philippines with restrictions or rationing she may be asking you to (help her) skirt the law.  In any case, if it were me, I wouldn't help her in any case.