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[RetRN]

Obnoxious people trying to intimidate you. MOVE.

[beckyb1012]

I think I would have to respond "do I know you or do I look like a personal shopper?"

Talk about trying to control others with their own selfish needs.  Kick them to the curb you are to busy deal with others shopping lists.

[reiki604]

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@Pqfan wrote:

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@qualitygal wrote:

So, are you going to send it or not?

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At this point they have a better shot at Santa Claus and Rudolf bringing it to them.

How this all got started:

I am friends with 2 people that this person doesn't like.

These 2 people have been so kind to me and I refused to give them up so she stopped speaking to me and also insults me because I won't let go of 2 people that have never done anything to me.

I can't let this person dictate who I can or can't be friends with.

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Good for you! She isn't a friend. Not everyone we know qualifies for that relationship. I would ignore her and if she asked again would probably start laughing and say 'You must be kidding'. You have the responsibility to keep people in your life who support you and are kind to you. The others don't matter.

ETA.......I just read your other message about being told you have to move because you live in her fiancé' house. Run, don't walk to find a new place to live!!!! It is disgusting that they would use this issue as blackmail to you. The fiancé should do the shopping for her. They are just looking to control and manipulate you! GET OUT OF THERE!!! Yes I am shouting, it sounds like a situation that could turn dangerous, if not physically, then mentally or emotionally.

[Pqfan]

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@RetRN wrote:

Obnoxious people trying to intimidate you. MOVE.

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I am trying but it's not so easy on such short notice.

I really don't want to go back to where I was the town was very bad.

[Laura14]

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@Pqfan wrote:

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@RetRN wrote:

Obnoxious people trying to intimidate you. MOVE.

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I am trying but it's not so easy on such short notice.

I really don't want to go back to where I was the town was very bad.

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@Pqfan  I am so sorry!  I didn't know that.  

Check your rights as a tenant.  They may not be able to dictate the time limit if you need more.  But I agree.  Get gone and good riddance!    

How stupid are they to lose a good tenant?  Turkeys!  Burn it down when you move out the last thing you own and tell them thanks for the memories.    

[shoptilyadropagain]

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@Pqfan wrote:

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@qualitygal wrote:

So, are you going to send it or not?

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At this point they have a better shot at Santa Claus and Rudolf bringing it to them.

How this all got started:

I am friends with 2 people that this person doesn't like.

These 2 people have been so kind to me and I refused to give them up so she stopped speaking to me and also insults me because I won't let go of 2 people that have never done anything to me.

I can't let this person dictate who I can or can't be friends with.

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Sounds like they are still in Junior High/Middle School.  

[Pqfan]

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@shoptilyadropagain wrote:

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@Pqfan wrote:

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@qualitygal wrote:

So, are you going to send it or not?

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At this point they have a better shot at Santa Claus and Rudolf bringing it to them.

How this all got started:

I am friends with 2 people that this person doesn't like.

These 2 people have been so kind to me and I refused to give them up so she stopped speaking to me and also insults me because I won't let go of 2 people that have never done anything to me.

I can't let this person dictate who I can or can't be friends with.

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Sounds like they are still in Junior High/Middle School.  

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They are extremely image concious and they still refer to themselves as the "cheerleader" or one of the popular girls even though they are in their late 40's.

[RetRN]

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@Pqfan wrote:

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@RetRN wrote:

Obnoxious people trying to intimidate you. MOVE.

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I am trying but it's not so easy on such short notice.

I really don't want to go back to where I was the town was very bad.

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I truly understand that it is not easy, but PLEASE try to find another place to live. Staying where you are is too stressful.

[NativeJax]

@qualitygal...

Thank you for your kindness....I really appreciate you taking the time to say something nice. It has been a tough 6 months for me and I could list all the things that are going wrong but I try to remember that there are times when life is good and times when it is very hard. I just keep telling myself peaks and valleys...:-)

[itiswhatitis]

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@NativeJax wrote:
@itiswhatitis....

My friend has her plate full...her husband had a massive stroke 2 years ago and is fully disabled. I realize I did not read all the comments though...

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I understand then @NativeJax.