Okay, this is going to sound silly, but I've rarely been pampered, so the little things mean a lot -
DH sets up the coffee pot in the evening. When I get up at 4:30 am and the coffee is waiting for me I feel like the luckiest woman in the world.
Similarly, when I make a meal in my crockpot and come home to a cooked meal after a long day, I feel like I have a personal chef, lol. Heck, DH always said I was a cheap date!
~ house cat ~