Very Difficult Situation - Page 3

colliegirls · ‎05-13-2012

As a friend, the best you can do is just listen.

13 is way too young to date anyone, let alone a 19 yr old. Very sad situation.

SydneyH · ‎03-10-2010

@goldensrbest wrote:
I am puzzled at the remarks some of you are making,to the op.

This is destined to become yet another closed or moved thread, and apparently only those that coddle are allowed to comment.

goldensrbest · ‎03-10-2010

Yes, with all the unkind remarks.

@SydneyH wrote:
@goldensrbest wrote:
I am puzzled at the remarks some of you are making,to the op.
This is destined to become yet another closed or moved thread, and apparently only those that coddle are allowed to comment.

When you lose some one you L~O~V~E, that Memory of them, becomes a TREASURE.

Plaid Pants2 · ‎03-14-2015

@goldensrbest wrote:
I am puzzled at the remarks some of you are making,to the op.

Nothing "mean" has been said.

The o/p asked for advice, and she's getting it.

Now, she may not like some of the responses, and feel as though she's being "picked on", but the reality of it is, she isn't.

But it also helps to keep in mind that this isn't the first time that the o/p has come here asking for advice.

She has done it many times.

Once recent (infamous) post was that the o/p didn't get a promotion that she felt that she deserved, and it went to a younger man, who has been with the company a shorter amount of time than she has been, and she was thinking of sueing the company for sexual discrimination.

Lots of good, decent people took time out of their lives to give her sound advice, which she poo-pooed.

So, there is a history there.

She has posted about words that her mother said reguarding men and sex "haunting her".

That thread too eventually went south.

So that might explain some of the responses that the o/p is getting.

ValuSkr · ‎03-15-2014

You and the young lady should watch the movie Juno together. That might help.

Cindy-QVC · ‎06-14-2015

Moved:

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missy1 · ‎03-10-2010

Maybe the girls parents condoned their relationship, until she got pregnant. It will never happen to us. It has, and let them deal with it. Be supportive, and only give suggestions if they ask for it.

Zhills · ‎11-15-2011

Your daughter is still your daughter and needs to know that you love her...unconditionally...and especially now.

Put yourself in your daughter's place for a moment!

The daughter probably feels terrible; she had to face her parents and tell them, knowing it would break their hearts!

Love her, love her and love her and let her know it....every day!

A baby is always a baby and babies deserve love...no matter how they were conceived.

ladyroxanne · ‎03-09-2010

i agree this is a very difficult situation, but there is nothing you can do but be there for your friend to listen if she needs you. this is a terrible situation and i wish your friend peace and the best of luck.

Plaid Pants2 · ‎03-14-2015

@Zhills wrote:
Your daughter is still your daughter and needs to know that you love her...unconditionally...and especially now.

Put yourself in your daughter's place for a moment!

The daughter probably feels terrible; she had to face her parents and tell them, knowing it would break their hearts!

Love her, love her and love her and let her know it....every day!

A baby is always a baby and babies deserve love...no matter how they were conceived.