The guy across the hall?

Pqfan · ‎03-09-2010

I am not interested in him but he asked me if I ever need help or just want to talk let him know. I just politely thanked him and left it at that. I don't know him I just say hi if I see him just to be polite.Yet I know there is or was a lady over there. Why would a man ask to help another woman when he has a lady already? They were fighting last night (not about me) Am I supposed to be the replacement lol ugh....

Elstongunn · ‎03-12-2010

Who knows why? He could be trying to strike up a friendship, relationship; or he might just wanted to let you know if you ever need help you can ask him.

Anyway, a simple "thank you. I'll let you know if I ever want help or to talk" and leave it at that. I wouldn't spend too much time trying to read something into it.

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Preds · ‎12-17-2012

ktlynam is right. And maybe he is the one that needs someone to talk to.

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PIT-HAG Melissa · ‎03-09-2010

On 3/8/2015 Preds said:
ktlynam is right. And maybe he is the one that needs someone to talk to.

Maybe but I would still steer clear.. You do not know how dramatic the woman is...A simple thank you was the perfect response...

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Pqfan · ‎03-09-2010

On 3/8/2015 ktlynam said:
Who knows why? He could be trying to strike up a friendship, relationship; or he might just wanted to let you know if you ever need help you can ask him.

Anyway, a simple "thank you. I'll let you know if I ever want help or to talk" and leave it at that. I wouldn't spend too much time trying to read something into it.

Thanks. Yes you are right. He was just being friendly he didn't say anything inappropriate but I am glad I didn't knock on his door wanting anything lol Not that I would ever do that. The lady might kick my _ _ _ lol

Preds · ‎12-17-2012

Just keep being you ... polite. If he wants to "talk" out in the drive or hallway, that's fine. Watch yourself and you'll be okay.

Fate whispers to her, "You cannot withstand the storm." She whispers back, "I am the storm."

ShowMe · ‎09-06-2010

Hey.....I have a "the guy across the hall", and couldn't ask for a nicer person to be living there. He too has said if I ever need anything, just let him know. He was very helpful to me last month when I was going through all the doctors and tests, then had to deal with having my car inspected to get new license stickers. He took my car in to work with him (he's an auto mechanic"} and saw to it that it was inspected. And, he has taken my trash out to the dumpster a couple times when I had just placed it outside my back door.

And, he does have girls (ladies) that come to visit him. I have met a couple of them. Heck, they know I'm harmless......lol.

Plaid Pants · ‎11-03-2014

I think he was just being neighborly and friendly.

I don't think there is anything ""sinister"" going on.

YorkieonmyPillow · ‎01-13-2013

I'd hate to have to live across from that situation. To be on the safe side, I would only greet either of them; I wouldn't get too friendly with either one. If they are fighting then they will probably each hope they can turn to you. I would keep my distance!