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[deepwaterdotter]

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@cherry wrote:

I don't even have a cell, and I don't want one ,either. My husbands is enough. I don't look at his phone, unless he is drivin,g and asks me to answer it...I hate them, and want as little to do with them as possible

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Same for us.  If I need to use his phone, he has to tell me how to turn it on.

[bootsanne]

No.  He has no cell phone and he doesn't know how to use my iPhone.  His wallet is trip-wired.

[Mistic]

No, No, and No.  Together 47 years.

[RedTop]

My husband agrees to carry a phone for safety purposes only.   It’s a flip phone and the only thing he knows about it is how to answer it, how to make a call on it, and how to silence it.   He has absolutely no clue what his cell number is, nor does he know how to find the contact list I put in the phone.   He has absolutely no interest in the phone except to put it in his pocket when he leaves the house; the rest of the time the phone can be found on the counter beside his keys.  Texting is of no interest to him, along with computers.   

[freakygirl]

i never have and was never tempted to. i guess it’s because i would hate it if he did it to me. 

[candys mine]

That is not really anyones  business.

[Preds]

I can't even go into my own phone to look for old messages.  I had it to him to check.  LOL  Nope on the wallet, too.  He's here and that's good enough for me.

[libbyannE]

No. We don’t have that kind of marriage. If you don’t trust each other, you don’t have much of a marriage. Period.

[Coquille]

No, I've never found the need to. Our marriage is an open book to each other. We're together 44 years. Has it always been roses and lollipops, no but isn't that what marriage is all about? Trust, love communication among other things. I feel, as other posters have said, if one needs to spy on their spouse, there's a big problem at hand.

[Allegheny]

Well, no.   I know there is nothing there to be concerned about or for that matter interested in.   As far as his wallet, he doesn't even keep his money in it.  There is also the matter of privacy and trust.  It goes both ways, I expect the same courtesy from him.