I just called my (long distance) sister, to warn her about this TEMU, & share this thread info, 'cause her husband orders a lot of items, esp online. He's a HEAVY user of his Cell & Tablet!
Turns out, he suddenly rec'd a delivery with a new cell phone inside that they didnt order. And similar to what @bikerbabe and I described above, this aggressive, phantom delivered box technique, there was no identifying info to contact, to return the box/item, or correct this "mistake." But it clearly came from TEMU, they made sure, no doubt.
Her husband knows of TEMU's sordid past, but wasnt aware that TEMU is anywhere near as invasive as described by @dooBdoo above (incl her text in red).
I've been attracted to many of TEMU's items, but held off. Now I know why!
THANK YOU for this warning & for these details and counsel!! NO WAY am I ordering from TEMU!
I hope my sister & BIL havent ordered from TEMU. and hope they HAVE NOT USED THAT "PHANTOM PHONE" they received from TEMU! Imagine the temptation? Whew! But then, that's the point!
N A S T Y! !
I N V A S I V E! !
even a form of P R E D A T O R Y !!
TEMU ---> 
"Don’t forget to be kind to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained angels without realizing it!" TLB