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[Firefly3]

Are you serious? Run and do not look back! You are being used!

[SelahG]

On 4/23/2014 lulu2 said:

Judge Judy would say return the ring then RUN.

And right she'd be!

Not to make light of your troubles, OP. I agree with everyone else---you do deserve so much better than this.

[Raindrop7]

Judge Judy would have a field day with me!

I am perfectly content by myself and will not settle for less than I deserve. He said when I had financial difficulties that he would always be there for me and if I had to sell my house I always had a place with him but yet I can't visit his house or his Mom now. I fell for it because it was what I wanted to hear at the time. Apparently I've been played big time. But payback is a b**ch.

[Raindrop7]

He never even told his Mother we were engaged.

[hckynut]

I must be missing something here. I have been anemic and treated and still need treatment regularly. B-12 shots/blood transfusions and Iron Infusions to name a few of the treatments on a regular basis. I ain't quite getting why anemia and some neuropathy and thyroid problems has you ""home bound 90% at 48 years old"".

Maybe I am missing something here but I can tell you I have a whole lot more health issues going on that the ones mentioned about and I am not home bound and I will be 75 in less than 2 months.

I didn't read your whole post because I couldn't get past being home bound with these types of problems. As far as friendship or more? Go with your gut feeling as I am sure you must have some feeling as to what is the right way for you to go with this guy.

[Raindrop7]

I can go out but it is difficult and I can't walk for longer than a few minutes. I was so weak when I got to the hospital I could not walk on my own and had Ataxia (balance issues). I needed 7 weeks of PT to get me walking with a walker and then had to get stronger to the point of walking with a cane. When I went to the ER my hemoglobin was 3.5. I was in ICU for 2 days and needed 6 blood transfusions. I had lost oxygen to the brain. The day my friends took me to the ER I had fallen and could not get myself up off the floor by myself.

I had taken shots of Stelara for psoriasis before this happened and I was perfectly fine physically before that except for the psoriasis. I blame those shots for what happened to me. Can't be proven though.

[HappyAndIKnowIt From NY]

There are a whole lot of things that are worse than being alone. You've probably been stressed for so long, you may not be aware of the extent. I agree with every post written. Also, other than the fact that he is a loser, I don't think you really know him or his character so change your locks.

[pistolino]

[pistolino]

On 4/23/2014 Raindrop said:

Judge Judy would have a field day with me!

I am perfectly content by myself and will not settle for less than I deserve. He said when I had financial difficulties that he would always be there for me and if I had to sell my house I always had a place with him but yet I can't visit his house or his Mom now. I fell for it because it was what I wanted to hear at the time. Apparently I've been played big time. But payback is a b**ch.

Not only is he a loser, but it's also possible HE IS MARRIED and that's why you can't visit his house.

Don't even worry about payback....just run like your hair is on fire and go NO CONTACT immediately.

[ROMARY]

He probably wouldn't leave his mother anyway, if it's true that he lives with/next door to her. Wishing you well.