A long time ago, I 'refused' an order from QVC, that was vendor shipped, unbeknowst to me.
It was a large, heavy item and before Q had 'return labels', so I was trying to avoid the cost to ship it back, once I realized it wouldn't fit.
I wrote 'refused' on the unopened box and called UPS for pickup, never seeing the mysterious (invisible) UPS man.
It was picked up, but he left no kind of tracking, etc. and I waited an eternity for credit, which never came.
After inquiring with QVC, turns out the item was returned to the vendor who shipped it, but they didn't notify QVC of the return.
I was seriously admonished by QVC and told never to refuse a package, return instead.
As @Kachina624 stated, one reason given was insurance only covered shipment TO me.
Lesson learned......
You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.