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Re: Passive ?? Aggressive ??

On 10/29/2014 Jig Saw said:
On 10/29/2014 JustMeMelissa said:

Jig Saw-

Not here but in everyday life it drives me crazy when my friends throw out the P.A comments when they don't pertain..

LOVE PSYCHOLOGY... I always want to know what makes a person "tick" below the surface...

Me too! The psychology of it all is one reason I love the Saw movies.

1,2 and 3 were GREAT! I have yet to see 4 and 5...

Are they as good?

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4 yes, 5 was a little disappointing and did not live up to the other 4 imo.

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My oldest son was expert at #3 when it came to chores around the house. I didn't fall for it, though ... had him redo them at every turn. He soon got the message that it was better to do it right the first time.

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Re: Passive ?? Aggressive ??

On 10/29/2014 JustMeMelissa said:
On 10/29/2014 Jig Saw said:
On 10/29/2014 JustMeMelissa said:

Jig Saw-

Not here but in everyday life it drives me crazy when my friends throw out the P.A comments when they don't pertain..

LOVE PSYCHOLOGY... I always want to know what makes a person "tick" below the surface...

Me too! The psychology of it all is one reason I love the Saw movies.

1,2 and 3 were GREAT! I have yet to see 4 and 5...

Are they as good?

Hi, Melissa!{#emotions_dlg.thumbup}

I think they're all spot on. Thinking about it, they all are outcomes of failure to address issues in a direct, straight-forward way, aren't they.

Few things reveal your intellect and your generosity of spirit—the parallel powers of your heart and mind—better than how you give feedback.~Maria Popova
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Selfishness and greed are behind the outcomes of failure imo. An unwillingness to work together.

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Re: Passive ?? Aggressive ??

On 10/29/2014 KittyLouWhoToo said:
On 10/29/2014 dooBdoo said:
On 10/29/2014 KittyLouWhoToo said:
On 10/29/2014 dooBdoo said:
On 10/29/2014 KittyLouWhoToo said:
On 10/29/2014 dooBdoo said:
On 10/29/2014 KittyLouWhoToo said:

"Well, Bless Her Heart".

I hate seeing that comment become one that people take as sarcasm. Coming from the south, I always used it sincerely. Now if I say it, I always feel I have to add some sort of disclaimer.{#emotions_dlg.laugh}

Sorry, dooBdoo, I don't have control over the evolving vernacular.

{#emotions_dlg.biggrin}

Oh, come on, now, Kitty. I thought you did, and you could help us out here.{#emotions_dlg.laugh}

I Am Kitty, Hear me Mew!"

And hiss, and grrrrowllll.{#emotions_dlg.laugh} And purr! Just don't scratch me!{#emotions_dlg.scared}

Sometimes my animal nature just takes over.

{#emotions_dlg.w00t}


Well, bless y'alls hearts! {#emotions_dlg.laugh}

Fate whispers to her, "You cannot withstand the storm." She whispers back, "I am the storm."

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Preds!

I know y'all mean that in the best way!

Few things reveal your intellect and your generosity of spirit—the parallel powers of your heart and mind—better than how you give feedback.~Maria Popova
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On 10/29/2014 dooBdoo said:

Preds!{#emotions_dlg.laugh}

I know y'all mean that in the best way!{#emotions_dlg.biggrin}

You better believe it! Can't stop me from saying it. May have been born in the North, but I was raised in the South by Southern parents. I didn't stand a chance! {#emotions_dlg.laugh}

Fate whispers to her, "You cannot withstand the storm." She whispers back, "I am the storm."

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On 10/29/2014 Preds said:
On 10/29/2014 dooBdoo said:

<em>Preds</em>!{#emotions_dlg.laugh}

I know y'all mean that in the best way!{#emotions_dlg.biggrin}

You better believe it! Can't stop me from saying it. May have been born in the North, but I was raised in the South by Southern parents. I didn't stand a chance! {#emotions_dlg.laugh}

You're a good soul, Preds.{#emotions_dlg.wub}

I think "Bless your heart!" got the same transformation as "Well, isn't that special!" So we're doomed to live with the consequences.{#emotions_dlg.laugh}

Few things reveal your intellect and your generosity of spirit—the parallel powers of your heart and mind—better than how you give feedback.~Maria Popova
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On 10/29/2014 JuJu Squeezie said:
On 10/29/2014 reese2 said:

I guess I'm the only one who thanks people for their comments when I don't mean it? lol

The jigs up now.

I outted me!