Re: Not A Bash BUT an Opinion please

DowntonAbbey · ‎03-09-2010

that is funny, but I won't pay him. lol He does not have many jobs.......I can see why he does not hussle for work.........I think his dad left him money and he is living off of it or his mother gives him money..........whatever.........its too funny. A sweet man that I adore and he is young said MS V You are a real cinderella..............lol Well no prince though. It is ok. I will be 60 in January and I need good things in my life.........I am worth it we are all worth it..........we all deserve someone to make us bloom when they tell us they like us............you know he told the singles group "I HAVE MET AN ANGEL SO I AM LEAVING THE GROUP AND I HAVE CUT HER WINGS SO SHE CAN NEVER FLY AWAY FROM ME and everyone thought that was so romantic........so see why I felt like he wanted me???? Men. Sigh I have not cried one tear in fact I don't cry like I did last year or years before that anymore.

Carmie · ‎10-25-2010

If you are throwing a fit because he doesn't text you to say good morning and good night and you're only casually seeing him, then I would say you're too clingy. If a man expected me to do that in a very casual relationship, I'd dump him,

On the other hand, if you are complaining about him on this forum, you know what is wrong in your relationship,

It's time to move on with your life... without him.

chrystaltree · ‎05-10-2010

@DowntonAbbey wrote:
NO I don't want more than he does I just want a text good morning and be sure and call me once a day..........that is what I require. If they can't do that I don't want anything else from them. Its easy and I don't want to argue on this site again ever. SO please I did not push this man I tried to break it off when he started ignoring me during the week but was here on Friday nights and I told him then what makes me happy and he said he did not want to loose me, now get this after I wrote what I did he just texted me and said NO LIE BEEN FEELING LIKE ****** ALL DAY AND SLEEPING ALL DAY...........well too bad..........he had to get up and go to the rest room. So I am not answering him. It will just be the same thing it has been the last month if I do respond. Thank you all so much.

If you require that he check in with a text in the morning and follow up with call during the day and he cannot or will not do that. Stop seeing him. Because obviously, you do want more than he can give. I don't know why he hasn't broken up with you yet. You want a lot from a man who is just a friend.

HappyDaze · ‎06-13-2012

@DowntonAbbey wrote:
that is funny, but I won't pay him. lol He does not have many jobs.......I can see why he does not hussle for work.........I think his dad left him money and he is living off of it or his mother gives him money..........whatever.........its too funny. A sweet man that I adore and he is young said MS V You are a real cinderella..............lol Well no prince though. It is ok. I will be 60 in January and I need good things in my life.........I am worth it we are all worth it..........we all deserve someone to make us bloom when they tell us they like us............you know he told the singles group "I HAVE MET AN ANGEL SO I AM LEAVING THE GROUP AND I HAVE CUT HER WINGS SO SHE CAN NEVER FLY AWAY FROM ME and everyone thought that was so romantic........so see why I felt like he wanted me???? Men. Sigh I have not cried one tear in fact I don't cry like I did last year or years before that anymore.

Not sure if you are talking to me but I meant reimburse your landlord for the locks, not your "boyfriend".

And actually that statement he said is kind of creepy to me, not romantic. It makes me think he wanted to posess you and control you, not be a partner with you. A person who cares for you lets you keep your wings and helps you fly, they don't want to cut off your wings, they don't worry about you flying away. A person who truly cares about you wants you to soar to higher and better things and be the best you can be, not keep you locked up in a cage or unable to fly. Think about it.

JaneMarple · ‎05-23-2011

@chrystaltree wrote:
@DowntonAbbey wrote:
NO I don't want more than he does I just want a text good morning and be sure and call me once a day..........that is what I require. If they can't do that I don't want anything else from them. Its easy and I don't want to argue on this site again ever. SO please I did not push this man I tried to break it off when he started ignoring me during the week but was here on Friday nights and I told him then what makes me happy and he said he did not want to loose me, now get this after I wrote what I did he just texted me and said NO LIE BEEN FEELING LIKE ****** ALL DAY AND SLEEPING ALL DAY...........well too bad..........he had to get up and go to the rest room. So I am not answering him. It will just be the same thing it has been the last month if I do respond. Thank you all so much.

If you require that he check in with a text in the morning and follow up with call during the day and he cannot or will not do that. Stop seeing him. Because obviously, you do want more than he can give. I don't know why he hasn't broken up with you yet. You want a lot from a man who is just a friend.

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DowntonAbbey · ‎03-09-2010

My husband took my $9,000 I had saved and I am not on SSI............I am with a company on disability.......... I do not get government free benefits.........I am poor........and I only have $1,000 now. I thought I would be with my last husband forever I loved him and probably always will........we did not have intimacy until we were married for religious reasons but he was lying........he never touched me........so I asked after 50 days and he said he married me becasue I was a good woman, loved his son and his parents and sister kept pushing him to not loose me.........he is still not dating and we have been divorced a year.....he is the only man that has never wanted to touch me married or unmarried. It is a hard pill to swallow.

DowntonAbbey · ‎03-09-2010

I just don't understand and this is part of my head injury why he would be so interested in me and then stop and when we talked about it he said he had to brush up on being with someone it had been 17 months since he dated anyone. I just remembered my friend went out with him once and said he was a mamas boy and she did not see him again and I don't know how she knew that after dinner and a movie? Anyway I was trying to take a relatonship slow and tip toe. I just don't know why men bother women without interest but my male friend just said for intmacy and most of the good men are taken and he is right for the age I am. Its ok.........I am not hurt just wondering why do they seem so intersted and then stop? Well, its ok. I am not upset. Just dumbfounded when he persued me so much. Only wanting to see me and me see no one else. Oh well........

DowntonAbbey · ‎03-09-2010

OH dear Ms. Marple I think I have answered all those questions. It was a simple post. Please lets don't get it out of hand. Its over. My husband was not attracted to me and he wanted to make his parents happy that is what he told my friend he wanted to take out on a date this year when she asked why did you and C not make it? That is what he told her that his parents pushed him to marry me and he went with his head instead of his heart. I am not going to ever meet anyone so I am moving on.

DowntonAbbey · ‎03-09-2010

Becaucse I was going out of town and I needed someone to look after my apartment and my two great female friends are disabled and live about 25 miles from here and he comes to my town once a week so I wanted him to stop by and check on things and I gave him my jewelry and my only savings of $1,000 to hold for me until I get back home and he gave the things back.........its that simple I trusted him. His family is well known here with a company.

stevieb · ‎03-10-2010

I don't know. I don't expect anyone to swim through crocodiles for me and I certainly wouldn't expect it based on no more than a fledgling relationship. Personally, I also don't expect good morning and good night texts every day... Not to be unkind, and I mean that sincerely, but the whole relationship sounds a bit like something out of high school.

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