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[MaggieMack]

@goldensrbest, I know I've said this before, but many more (((hugs))) are sent your way today. You know the worst possible loss, and my heart surrounds yours. 

[Noel7]

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@goldensrbest wrote:

My son shane ,died because  of a medical mistake, when having his below knee left leg amputated, a specialist was to be in the operating room, and a screen was to be put in his lower body,in case a blood clot would happen, he suffered a embolism,that went to his brain.

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I am so sorry @goldensrbest.  Such a tragic loss.

[asoutherngirl]

I am deeply sorry for your loss, goldensrbest.  I wish I could say something to ease your pain.  The health problems from which I have suffered all of my life, caused three stillbirths, all boys, before I gave birth to my daughter. I missed "my boys" terribly, until one day, my little brain damaged daughter said to me, "Mommy, you will have children who will meet you in Heaven, and I will have brothers waiting for me." 

That a heart so deep could utter words so profound, that the wise innocence of a "limited" child, could  heal so acute a pain, opened my eyes and heart to the love of a God Who was asking me to wait to share a love that would be eternally perfect.  I believe You will find that.

[asoutherngirl]

Dear kookilady, thank you so much for your     comment and Happy Mother's Day to you!

[asoutherngirl]

Dear twinkies, thank you for your comment and I hope you will read the quotation from my daughter to goldensrbest.

[asoutherngirl]

Noel 7,, we are so blessed with our beautiful daughters!  I hope you will read the quotation from my daughter that I sent to goldensrbest. It is so typical of her..  I hope it brings solace to those who read it.  

[RetRN]

@goldensrbest, I am so sorry for your tragic loss.

[Deanie]

I am very sorry for everyone's loss due to Hospital negligence or error.  There is nothing that can be said.  Given that, I hope that in some way you find comfort.

[deedledeedeedle]

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@hopi wrote:

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@Zhills wrote:

Yes, unfortunately, medical errors do occur and always will!

God did not create each human body the same and he never sent a "how to" with a new baby!

Life is a lot of trial & error, in all areas!

I thank God that many have chosen to "practice" medicine.  They have saved many lives and aleviated much pain!  Can't image a life without them.

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Thank God for all who lost their lives so yours could be saved and your pain alleviated.  There are good doctors and good medicines just to many inept providers and money hungry pharmaceuticals.

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BTW, today begins NURSES WEEK and I for one am a grateful ex patient who received the very best of care from nurses who work in less than desirable conditions, carrying a lot of responsibility and without choice of their next patient. From the bottom of my heart a huge shout out to the nurses on the forum here and may God bless you. You are truly angels.

and btw, hospitals are not hotels and nurses should not be disrespcted by their patients (or anyone else for that matter).

dee

[tends2dogs]

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@goldensrbest wrote:

My son shane ,died because  of a medical mistake, when having his below knee left leg amputated, a specialist was to be in the operating room, and a screen was to be put in his lower body,in case a blood clot would happen, he suffered a embolism,that went to his brain.

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@goldensrbest  You have experienced a parent's worst nightmare.  My heart and prayers go out to you. 

This explains your signature.  Hang on to those treasures.