I live in a town with a population of about 100,000, so to me it is nice sized, and has plenty, however when we want to go to the theatre or a sporting event, we are about 30 minutes South of Milwaukee, and about 90 minutes North of Chicago, so I like where I live......
I too, have been to very large cities, and while I love the hustle and bustle of the city, I know I could not live there...But to me they are fun to visit!!!!!