@chickenbutt wrote:
I live in a small city (pop around 250,000 last I knew) and I'm fine with that. I have traveled around the country and to numerous other countries and wherever I am I am not particularly fond of crowds. I like having space. 
Also, being from LA, not fond of major traffic! At least up here that's seldom any concern at all. Only time traffic is aggravating is when they are working on the freeway, or any main thoroughfare, and have lanes closed off.
I find other's perspective on this subject fascinating.
To me, a city with 250,000 people is not small. It is a mid sized city. We live near a city that has a population of 50,000 and that is closer to what I call a small city. And I consider a city to be different than a 'town'. Small city, to me would be 50,000 people, Small town would be something like 10,000 or less.