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[KYToby]

Stop!  Just stop!

A shopping channel message board is absolutely no place for legar or medical advice.

If you need legal advice, spek with an attorney.  If this does not concern you, stay out of it.  It is none of your business.

[Pqfan]

They are not married yet or combined anything.

I am so worried for the guy but I can't say anything to him.

She is a shark to the tenth power!

[Pqfan]

@KYToby Only a mod can tell me what to do not you.

It is not me and I haven't gotten in anyone's business.

If you don't like my thread stay out of it thanks.

[Pqfan]

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@The Monkey on My Back wrote:

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@Pqfan wrote:

Two people get married.

The man owns a home.

If there is a divorce in NJ and there is no prenup what happens?

Does the woman automatically get money from the guy?

I am watching a possible train wreck right now.

The guy is very naieve. (spelling)?

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Maybe this will help:

http://statelaws.findlaw.com/new-jersey-law/new-jersey-marital-property-laws.html

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Thanks for the link.

[libbyannE]

You must call a lawyer. Period.

[DoneTryin]

I think you're going to have to MYOB.  At the most, perhaps you can suggest he see an attorney about a pre-nup, for the protection of both parties involved.

[tansy]

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@Pqfan wrote:

They are not married yet or combined anything.

I am so worried for the guy but I can't say anything to him.

She is a shark to the tenth power!

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If he's family, @Pqfan, maybe a few of you could try talking to him but I know that'll be hard.  

[Pqfan]

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@DoneTryin wrote:

I think you're going to have to MYOB.  At the most, perhaps you can suggest he see an attorney about a pre-nup, for the protection of both parties involved.

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Yes that is what I have decided to do.

I was just wondering how it works because I know very little about these things.

Monkey on my back gave me a good link.

[Mj12]

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@Pqfan wrote:

They are not married yet or combined anything.

I am so worried for the guy but I can't say anything to him.

She is a shark to the tenth power!

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Oh @Pqfan.  If it were me, I would hope I would tell him - as unpleasant and uncomfortable as it will be.  It is that important and you'd be looking out for him.

[Peaches McPhee]

@PhilaLady1, I so agree with you about alimony.  I don't think it is used much any more, for exactly the reasons you state.  Just in extenuating circumstances (if the divorcing couple is elderly, for example).