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[dex]

i was driving to the gym this morning and that was the question of the day.This one man called and said that he has heated a towel for after his wife's shower during the colder months for the last forty two years.he said that as soon as he hears the shower start he puts a towel in the dryer and gets it out as soon as he hears the water stop.What a sweet man.My DH says that stuff is just not him.He is a good husband in most ways but I really wish he was thoughtfully romantic once in awhile.

[ladyroxanne]

what a nice man!  i have a great husband who will do anything for me, but it wouldn't even occur to him to heat towels. is there a class they can attend?  just kiddng!  i'm perfectly happy and good for her!

[BornToShop]

Oh yes!  We have been married for 23 years & we renew our vows every night!  We never take life for granted.  

[Noel7]

Mine is romantic.  He picks out the nicest cards and brings home little presents all the time.  He started fixing my cereal every morning lately when I get up.  He makes designs on the top with colorful sliced fruit.  It's just such a nice gesture, imo.

The hot towel is really nice

[dex]

@Noel7 I would say your guy is romantic and fun too.The cereal decorating is the sweetest.Lucky you.

[HappyDaze]

YES He does so many sweet things but my favorite is when he just randomly comes over and gives me a kiss or one of his wonderful bear hugs and holds onto me for a few minutes.

On a side note regarding his big hear hugs, it makes one of my dogs jealous and he tries to push us apart, lol. He gets his nose inbetween us and tries to weasel the rest of his body inbetween us and he wraps his leg around my leg, lol. It is the funniest thing and we start laughing when he does that. He does it every time we hug too.

[Noel7]

@dex

Thank you, that's really nice of you

[AKgirl2]

@dex...wow, heating her towel, 42 years...a true labor of 

L❤️VE...when my husband tried to be romantic which was not often, it was so unlike him that I almost couldn't help laughing,

it felt so fake, like bad acting...

[LIndaMJ]

My DH will do thoughtful things most of the time, but I wouldn't call him romantic.

[occasionalrain]

The last thing I want from my husband is a greeting card or him listening for the shower and bringing me hot towels, that's a bit voyeuristic and makes me cringe. Are they unaware that towel warmers can be installed in their bathroom?

What I want is great in bed, my husband is that, great in bed. A hot husband trumps a hot towel every day of the week.