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Re: Is your husband affectionate?

If her husbands KNOWS she has fibro and is still behaving that way,  isn't he deliberately hurting her?  

 

How is that okay with anyone here?

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Re: Is your husband affectionate?

I don't understand why so many posters are ridiculing the OP. 

Folks are wondering if she will come back to the thread - after the response she received, I wouldn't blame her for not returning.

 

People post all kinds of personal things in this Community.

 

OP - although my husband is deceased a few years now - he could be a real PITA the way your DH is.  Some guys have a one track mind and it's hard to get them on another track ;-)

 

 

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Re: Is your husband affectionate?

@Bird mama, I can happily say my hubby wasn't like this. However, based on the numerous one-and-done first dates I've been on in the last seven years, I've decided I'm happiest by myself. Sheesh, some men don't understand "inappropriate." So, I completely get where you're coming from.

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Re: Is your husband affectionate?

this thread has to be a joke, right?

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Re: Is your husband affectionate?

I don't think this is too personal. We are all anonymous, and sometimes that's the best way to ask for advice or post.

It sounds to me as if he is passive aggressive. Continues to do things you don't like, but then presents it in a way as if YOU are the issue. Not trying to diagnose what is going on, but I have been married to someone who acted in similar ways and he always had a way to turn things back on me, as if he did nothing wrong. 

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Re: Is your husband affectionate?


@Desertdi wrote:

Take your half of "the million".........and get out of there...............


@Desertdi, OMG I just about spit my drink when I read this hahahahaha.  No offense to OP.  LM

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Re: Is your husband affectionate?

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@Lilysmom wrote:

@Desertdi wrote:

Take your half of "the million".........and get out of there...............


@Desertdi, OMG I just about spit my drink when I read this hahahahaha.  No offense to OP.  LM


@Lilysmom, this is the best go to ever!!  Made me think of you..

 

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Re: Is your husband affectionate?


@biancardi wrote:

this thread has to be a joke, right?


@biancardi, I think the jury is still out on that question..

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Re: Is your husband affectionate?


@orangegarnet wrote:

@Lilysmom wrote:

@Desertdi wrote:

Take your half of "the million".........and get out of there...............


@Desertdi, OMG I just about spit my drink when I read this hahahahaha.  No offense to OP.  LM


@Lilysmom, this is the best go to ever!!  Made me think of you..

 


@Suziepeach, exactly😅.  I'm still laughing...LM

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Re: Is your husband affectionate?

@Lilysmom, that was a classic remark!  LOL  I'm laughing myself.. 

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