Re: I am not spontaneous!

Pqfan · ‎03-09-2010

@muttmom wrote:
@Pqfan wrote:
If you guys get tired of hearing about my love life let me know lol!
So, Mr. Green Eyes wanted me to fly to Disney world this afternoon!
Zero notice!
I said no.

I just couldn't do that.
He said pack a bag and let's go.
I am not even sure if I have a bag like that.
I have grocery bags that's it.
Could be he was show boating. Presidents' Weekend flights are usually booked way in advance as are the hotels in the Disney area.

@muttmom Thanks for letting me know because I don't know about these trip thingys.

Pqfan · ‎03-09-2010

@Smoky wrote:

@SuziepeachLOL! Yes! That would totally be me!

Sweet_Serenity · ‎01-22-2016

You should never be uncomfortable. Change isn't easy for most. Why not day trip? See if you enjoy his company. Weekend is big commitment, When getting to know someone. Merely my opinion.

Suziepeach · ‎03-10-2010

@Pqfan wrote:
@Smoky wrote:
@SuziepeachLOL! Yes! That would totally be me!

@Pqfan, you'd get'r done!! We aren't leaving for Disney for a few weeks & I already know exactly what will go into my bag.. even being spontaneous there are certain things for Disney..

How wonderful about your love life.. You go girl!!

Go VOLS
Rocky Top you'll always be home sweet home to me.. Good ole Rocky Top, Rocky Top Tennessee... Rocky Top Tennessee

Annabellethecat66 · ‎03-12-2010

Don't be stupid about this. Check these guys out first. For $9.99 you can almost find out when they had their last bowl movement (sorry, but almost true).

I'd do that unless I knew the guy from the time I was a kid. People change. You are talking about going away somwhere where you won't know anyone. Don't be afraid to enjoy your life, just be smart about it.

Let lots of people know where you are going, who you are going with, (i.e. names and number, etc). Let the person you are going with that several people know you are going with this person. Just say something like, "I'm expecting to hear from so and so. I told my mother and sister I was going with you and gave them your name and number in case they can't reach me. Don't be gone for very long either.

Don't be stupid about your 'protection'. Bring your own (ummmm...some people are ummm forgetful"). You are an adult, you should enjoy your life, just take every precaution possible and for goodness sakes come back and tell us all (I mean all) about it....I'll be here at my computer waiting.....

dex · ‎03-09-2010

@Pqfan That's what I'm saying..you have an interesting life.I don't like to fly either and I don't do it often but have discovered that with a glass of wine it is much more enjoyable.If you date this man awhile and then maybe plan a trip together then you could possibly be more at ease.You really have to get out of the house and enjoy your life because time runs out on those chances and you missed out on all of the living.I don't know why you have so much trouble getting out especially when you appear to be easy to like and there are men just trying to spend time with you.

Pqfan · ‎03-09-2010

@Sweet_Serenity wrote:
You should never be uncomfortable. Change isn't easy for most. Why not day trip? See if you enjoy his company. Weekend is big commitment, When getting to know someone. Merely my opinion.

@Sweet_Serenity I was thinking this too.

I don't know what the room accomodations would have been or anything.

I am not about to "get busy" with him.

He's cute but not that cute for me to do that just because he took me somewhere.

GCR18 · ‎07-03-2013

I think I'm a prude. It feels too soon.

LizzieInSRQ · ‎12-27-2010

@Pqfan wrote:
@dex
@Annabellethecat66

This seems like somebody else's life besides mine right now.
He looked sad that I wouldn't go but for somebody like me that is just crazy.
I have never even been on a plane!

I am a homebody and I know if I don't change somewhat I will lose him.
I told him if you want me to do something like this you have to tell me.
The problem is even if he told me in advance I am not so sure I want to go.

(Mr. Green Eyes is man #2)
(Man #1 the first one ignores me on the weekends.)
He is getting the ax cause Mr. Green Eyes is the bomb!

Here's the thing to think about...you may not be compatible with each other then. Best to sort these things out now realistically then to be emotionally more invested in something than was ever going to work out. Or might.THIS is exactly what dating is all about. Finding out things about ourselves and each other. If YOU are not comfortable, so be it. You aren't losing out on anything that is feeling right to you.

Pqfan · ‎03-09-2010

@Annabellethecat66 wrote:
Don't be stupid about this. Check these guys out first. For $9.99 you can almost find out when they had their last bowl movement (sorry, but almost true).

I'd do that unless I knew the guy from the time I was a kid. People change. You are talking about going away somwhere where you won't know anyone. Don't be afraid to enjoy your life, just be smart about it.

Let lots of people know where you are going, who you are going with, (i.e. names and number, etc). Let the person you are going with that several people know you are going with this person. Just say something like, "I'm expecting to hear from so and so. I told my mother and sister I was going with you and gave them your name and number in case they can't reach me. Don't be gone for very long either.

Don't be stupid about your 'protection'. Bring your own (ummmm...some people are ummm forgetful"). You are an adult, you should enjoy your life, just take every precaution possible and for goodness sakes come back and tell us all (I mean all) about it....I'll be here at my computer waiting.....

@Annabellethecat66 I agree, I will be very careful.