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You aren't too old, just normal.

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Re: I Must Be Getting Old!

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@Daisy Sunflower wrote:

@violann wrote:

So however you define the motive @Daisy Sunflower, the actual execution Was MUCH LESS of an ambush than you seem to think.


 

Sorry @violann , but I would never have a "drop in shower".  Smiley Happy


I don’t know what you’re sorry for @Daisy Sunflower . You just must be much younger than I, and not necessarily aware of how some of these customs began. I would be interested in what you find objectionable about what was described as the “drop in shower” though.

Are the customs defining “showers” very different where you are?

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I think a "drop in" shower should be renamed a "scattered shower."   

 

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I must be getting old, too, because being around screaming kids just doesn't do it for me.

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I like the cake! the cute clothes and stuff too. Everything looks so exciting and then the baby is born, and life is normal again. Always great expectations! I won't take that dream away from any mom to be. 

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@dimin wrote:

 

 

I like the cake! the cute clothes and stuff too. Everything looks so exciting and then the baby is born, and life is normal again. Always great expectations! I won't take that dream away from any mom to be. 


@dimin   LOL - not for the new parents!  

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@dulwich  I hear you, I visited my niece and her newborn a month ago and I was able to hold up about 4 hours. I never want to leave early when I'm visiting my family, but I was just exhausted. Between all the feminine energy in the room and the dear baby has colick and was constantly crying, well it was too much for this old gal.

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@dimin wrote:

 

 

I like the cake! the cute clothes and stuff too. Everything looks so exciting and then the baby is born, and life is normal again. Always great expectations! I won't take that dream away from any mom to be. 


 

I agree!

 

I love showers, weddings, anything of that type.  There's so much sadness in the world and it's nice to celebrate happy occasions with people I care about.  And it's nice for them to have other people share in their joy.  I love being a part of that!

 

If anyone feels differently (and that's their right, of course), then they shouldn't attend.  The last thing I would want at my own happy occasion would be people attending who didn't want to be there.

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@Daisy Sunflower wrote:

@violann wrote:

So however you define the motive @Daisy Sunflower, the actual execution Was MUCH LESS of an ambush than you seem to think.


 

Sorry @violann , but I would never have a "drop in shower".  Smiley Happy


 

A drop-in shower sounds to me like an open house kind of thing.  People come and go throughout a specified time, whenever they can. And they stay for as long or short a time as they want.  It seems to me that should be preferable to those who don't like sitting through the opening of gifts, feeling forced to play games etc.