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[chiclets]

I read where Pqfan said it was his place and he has to move.

He is moving when the real estate agent finds him a place.

The area he has chosen to move to is in the town where the ex girlfriend lives.

He told her he wants her to have a nicer/bigger place.

What has my attention is that I do not hear the word we.

When they move shouldn't she have the option to at least see the new place before they go, shouldn't she maybe have a say beforehand whether she likes it or not.

I do not think she should be on any legal documents with him, as in a lease for the new place and he probably would not want her to be unless financially she is needed.

Where is the we in the relationship. He makes the decisions and is he a controlling person.

She hides her feelings and is admittedly good at it.

It has the impression of being more of a roommate partnership with benefits relationship.

She feels the friendship with the ex is better than their relationship, and that is defining the situation. She will always feel threatened, and jealous and I doubt he would tolerate it.

Where is the communication for a healthy relationship.

Pqfan I sincerely wish you the very best. You have many good friends giving you advice but ultimately it is your decision. You are never alone for any support with those friends. 

I wish you peace, happiness and health.

[Pqfan]

Thanks for all of the replies.

I read each and every one of them.

Update:

She called this morning saying blah blah blah I don't even know what she was saying.

She is very much in his business.

When he got off the phone I said I am leaving.

Yes I have the money.

He was shocked.

He said he only wants to be with me.

I don't want her in my life.

I won't be posting about this again.

[Cakers3]

@Pqfan   You do what is best for you and ignore the rest.  Sending you best wishes for a happier life. 

Be well.

[tends2dogs]

@Pqfan   Just hoping that you are safe and happy.  New beginnings can be scary, but also, wonderful!

All the best to you.

[kjayr]

Unfortunatly men lie. The best and worst of men lie. This sounds very suspect which you already know. You are better off alone than to be disrepected. Have faith in yourself and the person you are. Wishing you the best with your decisions.  

[Beth-QVC]

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