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i have new neighbors who moved in next door.  I have briefly spoken with them when they were moving boxes before the actual move.  Should I bring them a small housewarming gift?  If so, any ideas?

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Re: Housewarming Gift

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@Biftu wrote:

i have new neighbors who moved in next door.  I have briefly spoken with them when they were moving boxes before the actual move.  Should I bring them a small housewarming gift?  If so, any ideas?


@Biftu I think a greeting is enough.  If they want to get to know you better, they will.  And you might want to wait to see if you want to get chummy. . . Woman Embarassed

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I have never given a housewarming gift to new neighbors.

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I would not even START gift-giving with neighbors.    It might morph into birthday, anniversary, graduation, showers, weddings.....(and I'm sure I'm missing a few "occasions").

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If you do decide to give them a housewarming gift, I would give them a plant. 

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@Biftu 

 

I think it's a lovely idea since they are next door.  When I moved in my neighbor welcomed me with a small bouquet of flowers.  We never became fast friends because we were at different points in our lives but it was a nice start to a pleasant relationship. 

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@Biftu   That's a friendly, welcoming gesture. I usually bake...either cupcakes or cookies if kids moved in or a cake, muffins or pie. I like to deliver it in a plate or muffin tin that's a "keeper" after they finish the goodies.

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Registered: ‎10-19-2011

Why ever hesitate to show kindness? Is there a good local bakery? Maybe some muffins and cookies.  A pretty outdoor summer plant. I remember when I moved years ago and a neughbor behind me brougjt over a loaf of pumpkinbread. Kindness is not forgotten.

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I always bring over something baked along with a gift certificate to a pizza place.  It's a great ice breaker and does not mean you want to or have to become best friends! 

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The suggestions of a plant or gift certificate to a pizza place are great.  These days it's never known what kind of allergies or special diets people are on, so the baked goods may be appreciated, but not eaten.