Community Chat

[HisElk]

Jules, I just read this thread and sincerely hope that Mistri gets in touch with you. She really needs someone to talk to about her feelings IMO. Both of you have been through so much with your losses and I think you would be good for one another right now.

I feel the pain you are both going through and still think of my dear dad who passed in 1999. He so wanted to see the year 2000 but sadly, he didn't.

My heart goes out to both of you.

[misspammie]

Mistri, I miss you too. miss your thoughts, wisdom, insight, presence, and PICS!! truly we all miss you and care so very much. Please know that.

[JustJules]

On 5/26/2014 HisElk said:

Jules, I just read this thread and sincerely hope that Mistri gets in touch with you. She really needs someone to talk to about her feelings IMO. Both of you have been through so much with your losses and I think you would be good for one another right now.

I feel the pain you are both going through and still think of my dear dad who passed in 1999. He so wanted to see the year 2000 but sadly, he didn't.

My heart goes out to both of you.

Thank you HisElk... loss is never easy, but it does help when a person can share with someone. I am sorry for your loss as well. Whether it is days, or weeks or months or years... time doesn't change the hurt.

*edited by me*

[birddrops]

On 5/26/2014 Nancy Drew said:

On 5/25/2014 Jules5280 said:

Mistri.... I once asked you if we could hold hands and try to get through this grief together... and you said yes... I'm reaching out... hold my hand, please. I miss you.

This is like watching a movie on the Hallmark Channel.

Why can't you leave her alone or just ignore her? She is dealing with grief.

[JustJules]

Birddrops, you are a sweetheart... but she doesn't care, that is her whole point. She gets pleasure from the chase. She claims she wants to be left alone, but it is really her that continues to torment. It's okay, and if it doesn't stop soon, I'll sort it out. Like I said, it's fine for her to attack me, but not at the expense of lots of other great poster's threads.

[sidsmom]

Mistri: I miss your posts of little squirrels! I know it makes you smile when you do...and it makes us smile, as well. My condolences.... Sidsmom

[HisElk]

On 5/26/2014 Jules5280 said:

On 5/26/2014 HisElk said:

Jules, I just read this thread and sincerely hope that Mistri gets in touch with you. She really needs someone to talk to about her feelings IMO. Both of you have been through so much with your losses and I think you would be good for one another right now.

I feel the pain you are both going through and still think of my dear dad who passed in 1999. He so wanted to see the year 2000 but sadly, he didn't.

My heart goes out to both of you.

Thank you HisElk... loss is never easy, but it does help when a person can share with someone. I am sorry for your loss as well. Whether it is days, or weeks or months or years... time doesn't change the hurt.

*edited by me*

No problem, Jules... I know the pain both of you are feeling and there are still times that I have some 'bad' days. The upcoming one in June is always difficult.

As for the other posters in question, they are who they are. It's kind of sad that they get pleasure out of posting cruel posts, particularly if they don't know what happened to Mistri. As difficult as it is, ignoring their posts sometimes helps put out the 'fire' so to speak.

[JustJules]

Great advice HisElk!!! Sometimes it is hard to ignore, but probably the best option, thanks for the reminder. I will pray and wish you strength for the upcoming month. I understand since both my mom and dad's birthdays were in May, plus Mother's Day... June will remind me of their wedding anniversary, and Father's Day and my b-day.... there are always going to be "those" days that are so difficult when we are without the people we love and cherish most.

[HisElk]

On 5/26/2014 Jules5280 said:

Great advice HisElk!!! Sometimes it is hard to ignore, but probably the best option, thanks for the reminder. I will pray and wish you strength for the upcoming month. I understand since both my mom and dad's birthdays were in May, plus Mother's Day... June will remind me of their wedding anniversary, and Father's Day and my b-day.... there are always going to be "those" days that are so difficult when we are without the people we love and cherish most.

Well, sometimes I'm not very good at taking my own advice LOL, but I make an attempt (sometimes many) to sit on my hands around here.

My dad's birthday was in April as was mine, so that's a rough month for me. As for the month of June, my parents wedding anniversary is that month too and the 'dreaded' Father's Day. My parents were married 53 years and when my mom passed, my dear dad was really lost without her; they were so much in love.

Anyhow, I talk to much, so I'll just say that I thank you for 'listening'.

(((hugs))) to both you and Mistri.

[JustJules]

On 5/26/2014 HisElk said:

On 5/26/2014 Jules5280 said:

Great advice HisElk!!! Sometimes it is hard to ignore, but probably the best option, thanks for the reminder. I will pray and wish you strength for the upcoming month. I understand since both my mom and dad's birthdays were in May, plus Mother's Day... June will remind me of their wedding anniversary, and Father's Day and my b-day.... there are always going to be "those" days that are so difficult when we are without the people we love and cherish most.

Well, sometimes I'm not very good at taking my own advice LOL, but I make an attempt (sometimes many) to sit on my hands around here.

My dad's birthday was in April as was mine, so that's a rough month for me. As for the month of June, my parents wedding anniversary is that month too and the 'dreaded' Father's Day. My parents were married 53 years and when my mom passed, my dear dad was really lost without her; they were so much in love.

Anyhow, I talk to much, so I'll just say that I thank you for 'listening'.

(((hugs))) to both you and Mistri.

Hey, aren't we here to talk? People might not think so, but I actually am a good listener. I'm not looking forward to my parent's anniversary date in June, it was fine while my dad was alive because he always honored my mom.... but now they are both gone and this will be a first for me. Same thing with Father's Day.... *sigh* It will be difficult at best. I know it is part of life and a process.... and a I need to embrace the good memories and cherish them, instead of mourning what will never be anymore. It's just not easy to do.