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[Silver Lining]

I wonder how his parents feel about her blog and those pictures. I have a son. His father and I, his grandparents, cousins and friends would shudder at the thought of photoshopped pictures like that if he was deceased.

[lulu2]

She's a beautiful young lady and can deal with her fiance's death however she wants.

Sharing the picture with the public is a whole different thing. (of course today some people share everything.)

I too find this creepy but it seems to becoming popular.  I've seen pictures with a mother, baby and dead father. 

[NYC Susan]

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@Silver Lining wrote:

I wonder how his parents feel about her blog and those pictures. I have a son. His father and I, his grandparents, cousins and friends would shudder at the thought of photoshopped pictures like that if he was deceased.

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I hadn't thought of that, and I would find it disturbing as well.  I hope she discussed it with them prior to doing this.  They suffered a devastating loss as well.

[viva923]

I was reading some of the comments.

No matter what that person does, some will find fault with it.

My husband brother 1st wife was passing from a 5 yr battle of breast cancer. he was thru so much and then he got prostate cancer (he is on round 3 of this cancer now). He and she fought so hard together for years.

She finally passed from this awful disease. 

He met a friend of his wife a several years before wife passed, they were good family friends. The lady was never married, but a good family friend. After my husband brother wife passed, he married this lady. She is a wonderful wife, mom to her children (all adopted) and is a RN with masters. She works full time. Anyway, my neices and nephews refuse to even talk to their step mom, they refuse to recognize her as their dads wife. 

She lets it go, but I know it hurts her tremendously. My brother in law and wife just adopted a little 3 yr old boy. OH My gosh, it was ww3 in that family because of this breach. The kids are refusing to even talk to thier dad now because of this little boy.

Their will always be controversy no matter what is done.

[Kate1217]

So heartbreaking. I imagine the photo shoot helped her in her grieving & gave her comfort. Bless her.

[missy1]

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@viva923 wrote:

I was reading some of the comments.

No matter what that person does, some will find fault with it.

My husband brother 1st wife was passing from a 5 yr battle of breast cancer. he was thru so much and then he got prostate cancer (he is on round 3 of this cancer now). He and she fought so hard together for years.

She finally passed from this awful disease. 

He met a friend of his wife a several years before wife passed, they were good family friends. The lady was never married, but a good family friend. After my husband brother wife passed, he married this lady. She is a wonderful wife, mom to her children (all adopted) and is a RN with masters. She works full time. Anyway, my neices and nephews refuse to even talk to their step mom, they refuse to recognize her as their dads wife. 

She lets it go, but I know it hurts her tremendously. My brother in law and wife just adopted a little 3 yr old boy. OH My gosh, it was ww3 in that family because of this breach. The kids are refusing to even talk to thier dad now because of this little boy.

Their will always be controversy no matter what is done.

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How long was the time span before his 1st wife passing and the marriage to his  2nd wife?

Did he tell his children he was marrying? Childrens ages? If they were young, it can make a difference.

There's always another side. (I know) ..and to as why his kids might be acting like this towards the stepmom.

You don't have to answer.

[Karie2022]

absolutely heartbreaking...the tears in her eyes...omg...I hope she finds love again someday

[esmerelda]

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@sidsmom wrote:

The title of the article throws me.

It wouldn't be 'bride' if 'fiancé' is used.

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@sidsmom Keep it real.  LOL!