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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 ROMARY 1 said:

The 'other' one doesn't have a DH or DS's girlfriend. It was DS, DS's wife, and their child. Anyway, regarding this O/P: I wouldn't call any of them for a few weeks, or even months. Just 'shake it off' for awhile. However, I suggest O/P see a family counselor. There are probably a few social/community family counselors and or family counseling groups available in her area. Go alone, give the counselor all the info., etc. Just continue on with O/P's life, keep busy, etc. Try to not dwell on this situation, as there isn't much that one can do right now. Wait until each of them calms down, in a few weeks or so. Try to start a fresh New Year. Good luck to all.

The "other" one had many husbands. {#emotions_dlg.scared}Wink

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 dmod nj said:
On 12/22/2014 SoftRaindrops said:
On 12/22/2014 Marp2 said:
On 12/22/2014 RoughDraft said:

Not going to say it...nope.

Why do I get the feeling we are thinking similar thoughts.

Make that 3 of us.

Make that 4 of us.

Waving hi to RD, Marp and Soft. Smiley Happy

Waving and hugs!

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 NoelSeven said:
On 12/22/2014 dmod nj said:
On 12/22/2014 SoftRaindrops said:
On 12/22/2014 Marp2 said:
On 12/22/2014 RoughDraft said:

Not going to say it...nope.

Why do I get the feeling we are thinking similar thoughts.

Make that 3 of us.

Make that 4 of us.

Waving hi to RD, Marp and Soft. Smiley Happy

Are we talking Wheel Of Fortune, give me an R, Pat?

Yes, Noel, we are.{#emotions_dlg.laugh}

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 tansy said:

Will there be any viewing of someone's privates?

Geeze, I almost spit out my tea with that one!

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 faeriemoon said:

Does anyone else think Viewpoints is one big college Sociology experiment?

7 posts and she comes to a MB as a newbie to bring such personal family problems. I'm not buying it.

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 SoftRaindrops said:
On 12/22/2014 NoelSeven said:
On 12/22/2014 dmod nj said:
On 12/22/2014 SoftRaindrops said:
On 12/22/2014 Marp2 said:
On 12/22/2014 RoughDraft said:

Not going to say it...nope.

Why do I get the feeling we are thinking similar thoughts.

Make that 3 of us.

Make that 4 of us.

Waving hi to RD, Marp and Soft. Smiley Happy

Are we talking Wheel Of Fortune, give me an R, Pat?

Yes, Noel, we are.{#emotions_dlg.laugh}

Thanks, SR! I went there on the opening post alone.

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 NoelSeven said:
On 12/22/2014 SoftRaindrops said:
On 12/22/2014 NoelSeven said:
On 12/22/2014 dmod nj said:
On 12/22/2014 SoftRaindrops said:
On 12/22/2014 Marp2 said:
On 12/22/2014 RoughDraft said:

Not going to say it...nope.

Why do I get the feeling we are thinking similar thoughts.

Make that 3 of us.

Make that 4 of us.

Waving hi to RD, Marp and Soft. Smiley Happy

Are we talking Wheel Of Fortune, give me an R, Pat?

Yes, Noel, we are.{#emotions_dlg.laugh}

Thanks, SR! I went there on the opening post alone.

Wink{#emotions_dlg.biggrin}

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 Brokenhearted said: Actually im on my cell phone. After receiving the text, my husband doing nothing, saying nothing , i left. Im sitting in a parking lot thinking. there ia an issue with ds gf, as I was speaking to her on the phone being respectful but firm trying g to work out issues, her mom gets on the phone screaming, telling me- I am a piece of poop- a blank for calling her dd(foul word for a female) and a wh*re. This lady doesn't know me, never met me - - I've been married for almost forever- my husband is the second person ive ever been with. Ds wasn't going to say anything to the mother in my defense-- that alone made me cry. Everything continued to go south.

Ok I missed this post but your husband is smart to stay out of this.

If you said those things, you got back what you gave.

Quite frankly, I find this post extremely offensive in that you would think what you did was acceptable.

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

She's baaaack! Honestly RRR, now you have a husband, are overweight, and your son's wife is now a girlfriend. I think your TBI is really acting up.

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 dmod nj said:
On 12/22/2014 SugarNSpice said:
On 12/22/2014 Complicated said:
On 12/22/2014 nunya said:
On 12/22/2014 tansy said:

Will there be any viewing of someone's privates?

I hope so {#emotions_dlg.lol}

nunya, I did not know that about you!


Learn something new everyday! {#emotions_dlg.w00t}{#emotions_dlg.lol}

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I like naughty nunya. {#emotions_dlg.laugh}

OMG "NAUGHTY NUNYA" {#emotions_dlg.lol}

Good one, Dmod! Season's Greetings & Happy New Year....