Feeling devastated tonight

Brokenhearted · ‎12-22-2014

My ds ripped my heart out --never knew he felt this way. We had problems yes but not in my wildest imagination did i think the problems were of this magnitude.--im shocked. His words hurt deeply - they cut like a knife. i love my family, gave him everything I could. i thought id share. Please share ur feelings and tell me what to do. He is 25- almost 26. I am blocking you from text and calls after I send you this message. Know that I despise you. You are not my mother. I want you to have absolutely no part of my future. You will not know where I live, when I get married, or when I have kids. I want you 100% gone. You are the worst thing that's ever happened to me. I don't want to hear from anyone else about how you are or what you're doing, because I couldn't care less. You are the one person in the world to whom I can truthfully and wholeheartedly say, I hate you.

Mom2Dogs · ‎03-09-2010

Those are horrible words, and I am very sorry....something had to happen that would make your son speak to you in that way.........

faeriemoon · ‎03-14-2010

Does anyone else think Viewpoints is one big college Sociology experiment?

~What a terrible era in which idiots govern the blind.~ William Shakespeare

AnikaBrodie · ‎03-10-2010

I'm sorry and can't begin to imagine why your son would send you such a vindictive and hateful message. I hope you have family you can talk to about this and get to the bottom of the situation. Why, why, why???

"Faith, Hope, Love; the greatest of these is Love." ~The Silver Fox~

Lotus · ‎03-09-2010

I am very sorry you are going thru this.

No mother deserves to hear/read those words.....trust me I know.

Hugs to you.

"People with closed hearts will always feel as though they are at war with the world." ~My friend Nancy

VioletEyes · ‎03-12-2010

Perhaps, you could provide some background in why you think he sent you this email?

Say Nay · ‎03-12-2010

Wow. Only 57? For some reason I thought she was in her 70s.

SNS

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Brokenhearted · ‎12-22-2014

I can assure you I am a real poster - embarrassed to admit my ds feels this way under my other name. There is no point talking to his father, he is part of the problem - he is why my ds for may years has been allowed to disrespect me. My husband has never had my back or came to my rescue. My ds resents me for financial difficulties when all the blame belonged oh his father. I was always the bad guy- the one in control - - my son feels his father should of stood up to me. So much to say. There have been a couple issues with his gf too. I am shocked and hurt he feels the way he does.

SnowPink · ‎09-20-2014

So what did you do to him?

The first person I thought of was the poster named nickiebird because I'll never, ever, ever forget when she said that she loves her pets and she likes her children.