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[Catitude]

On 12/22/2014 Brokenhearted said: I can assure you I am a real poster - embarrassed to admit my ds feels this way under my other name. There is no point talking to his father, he is part of the problem - he is why my ds for may years has been allowed to disrespect me. My husband has never had my back or came to my rescue. My ds resents me for financial difficulties when all the blame belonged oh his father. I was always the bad guy- the one in control - - my son feels his father should of stood up to me. So much to say. There have been a couple issues with his gf too. I am shocked and hurt he feels the way he does.

He doesn't hate you. I think he wrote those ugly words in a fit of rage and anger. Does he have a temper or suffer from bi-polar or other mental health issues? He sounds irrational. Does he have a history of speaking to you in this fashion? Sorry you are brokenhearted but not sure what made him say these things to you.

[SnowPink]

Usually when everyone turns on you, it's not them - it's you. Get some therapy for yourself and learn how to heal your relationships. Good luck to you.

[nun ya]

Give him his space, he is clearly upset about something.

[anon]

On 12/22/2014 Brokenhearted said: Actually im on my cell phone. After receiving the text, my husband doing nothing, saying nothing , i left. Im sitting in a parking lot thinking. there ia an issue with ds gf, as I was speaking to her on the phone being respectful but firm trying g to work out issues, her mom gets on the phone screaming, telling me- I am a piece of poop- a blank for calling her dd(foul word for a female) and a wh*re. This lady doesn't know me, never met me - - I've been married for almost forever- my husband is the second person ive ever been with. Ds wasn't going to say anything to the mother in my defense-- that alone made me cry. Everything continued to go south.

Why are you meddling in son and gf's problems anyway? Maybe that's part of the problem.

[PAX]

On 12/22/2014 RoughDraft said:

Not going to say it...nope.

Aw go ahead. After all, tomorrow is Festivus, start the Airing of Grievances a day early.

[Brokenhearted]

I say with my husband for a few reasons. Too acted to leave. I'm overweight, i feel very uncomfortable about my body. Dealt with it for so long. Maybe no self esteem, I really don't know--don't want to be alone, I know that.

[Puzzle Piece]

To the OP - Do you look like Susan Boyle?

[SnowPink]

Why are you meddling in son and gf's problems anyway? Maybe that's part of the problem.

^^ Yep.

[Catitude]

On 12/22/2014 Love Roses said:

To the OP - Do you look like Susan Boyle?

Why are you taunting the OP?

[anon]

On 12/22/2014 Brokenhearted said: I say with my husband for a few reasons. Too acted to leave. I'm overweight, i feel very uncomfortable about my body. Dealt with it for so long. Maybe no self esteem, I really don't know--don't want to be alone, I know that.

There are worse things than being alone. One is being with someone and lonely.