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Daily Positive Thread for Friday

Hello my friends!! Early today because we are going out for supper to our friend's who used be our neighbors here, we will have supper with them, and learn a new game called carble - it's with cards and marbles. I never heard of it! So I don't know when we'll get back, it's a half hour away - where we used to live, another couple, friends for 30 years, is joining us there, they are neighbors to them. They live out by a lake. The garage is getting cleaner and looking good - the cupboards came that he bought for $100.00, used ones that look as good as new, now he needs someone to help him hang them up. They are heavy! Today it was really a blessing helping in the garage, cleaning out drawers etc. and finding things I didn't remember I had and now putting to good use! That was fun - and working with him a blessing. Thanks in advance for your sharing your blessings with us! May God bless you all and answer all your prayers.

In your search for peace, look within. If you are looking elsewhere,

you are looking in the wrong place. Lord, help me to open my heart

to Your gift of peace and refuse to let anything in that disturbs it.

Scripture for the day:

"Strive first for the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all

these things will be given to you as well." ~Matthew 6:33

Meditation for the day:

"Strive first for the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all

these things will be given to you as well." We need not seek material

things first, but seek spiritual things first and material things will

come to us, as we honestly work for them. Many of us seek material

things first and think they can then grow into knowledge of spiritual

things. We cannot serve God and earthly things at the same time. The

first requisites of an abundant life are spiritual things: honesty,

purity, unselfishness and love. Until we have these qualities,

quantities of material things are of little real use to us.

Prayer for the day:

I pray that I may put much effort into acquiring spiritual things. I

pray that I may get right spiritually and enjoy the many gifts around

me.

Words of Encouragement

The Hope That Awaits!

2 Corinthians 5:1

For we know that if the earthly tent we live in is destroyed, we have a

building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens.

“Destroy this temple and in three days I will raise it up,” said Jesus. His

enemies, thinking him the enemy of the Herodian temple, made this claim the

basis of the charge against him and used it to destroy him. It was the

greatest turnabout in history, since in so doing they fulfilled his words

and God, for his part, kept his end of the prophecy as well—-three days

later. Now Jesus reigns eternally in the heavens and we who are baptized

into his death will share with him in that risen life as well. Today, thank

God for the new life of soul and body that Jesus won for us in the

destruction of his earthly tent and the establishment of his eternal and

heavenly House.

Just a Word of Encouragement

from Mark Shea and Jeff Cavins.

The Right Moves

One day, many years ago, when I was working as a psychologist at a

children's institution in England, an adolescent boy showed up in the

waiting room. I went out there where he was walking up and down restlessly.

I showed him into my office and pointed to the chair on the other side of my

desk. It was in late autumn, and the lilac bush outside the window had shed

all its leaves. "Please sit down," I said.

David wore a black rain coat that was buttoned all the way up to his neck.

His face was pale, and he stared at his feet while wringing his hands

nervously. He had lost his father as an infant, and had lived together with

his mother and grandfather since. But the year before David turned 13, his

grandfather died and his mother was killed in a car accident. Now he was 14

and in family care.

His head teacher had referred him to me. "This boy," he wrote, "is

understandably very sad and depressed. He refuses to talk to others and I'm

very worried about him. Can you help?"

I looked at David. How could I help him? There are human tragedies

psychology doesn't have the answer to, and which no words can describe.

Sometimes the best thing one can do is to listen openly and sympathetically.

The first two times we met, David didn't say a word. He sat hunched up in

the chair and only looked up to look at the children's drawings on the wall

behind me. As he was about to leave after the second visit, I put my hand on

his shoulder. He didn't shrink back, but he didn't look at me either.

"Come back next week, if you like," I said. I hesitated a bit. Then I said,

"I know it hurts."

He came, and I suggested we play a game of chess. He nodded. After that we

played chess every Wednesday afternoon - in complete silence and without

making any eye contact. It's not easy to cheat in chess, but I admit that I

made sure David won once or twice.

Usually, he arrived earlier than agreed, took the chessboard and pieces from

the shelf and began setting them up before I even got a chance to sit down.

It seemed as if he enjoyed my company. But why did he never look at me?

"Perhaps he simply needs someone to share his pain with," I thought.

"Perhaps he senses that I respect his suffering." One afternoon in late

winter, David took off his rain coat and put it on the back of the chair.

While he was setting up the chess pieces, his face seemed more alive and his

motions more lively.

Some months later, when the lilacs blossomed outside, I sat starring at

David's head, while he was bent over the chessboard. I thought about how

little we know about therapy - about the mysterious process associated with

healing. Suddenly, he looked up at me.

"It's your turn," he said.

After that day, David started talking. He got friends in school and joined a

bicycle club. He wrote to me a few times ("I'm biking with some friends and

I feel great"); letters about how he would try to get into university. After

some time, the letters stopped. Now he had really started to live his own

life.

Maybe I gave David something. At least I learned a lot from him. I learned

how time makes it possible to overcome what seems to be an insuperable pain.

I learned to be there for people who need me. And David showed me how one -

without any words - can reach out to another person. All it takes is a hug,

a shoulder to cry on, a friendly touch, a sympathetic nature - and an ear

that listens.

12 Signs of a Spiritual Awakening

1. An increased tendency to let things happen rather than make them happen.

2. Frequent attacks of smiling.

3. Feelings of being connected with others and nature.

4. Frequent overwhelming episodes of appreciation.

5. A tendency to think and act spontaneously rather than from fears based

on past experience.

6. An unmistakable ability to enjoy each moment.

7. A loss of ability to worry.

8. A loss of interest in conflict.

9. A loss of interest in interpreting the actions of others.

10. A loss of interest in judging others.

11. A loss of interest in judging self.

12. Gaining the ability to love without expecting anything in return.

PUPPY SIZE

"Danielle keeps repeating it over and over again. We've been back to this

animal shelter at least five times. It has been weeks now since we started

all of this," the mother told the volunteer.

"What is it she keeps asking for?" the volunteer asked.

"Puppy size!" replied the mother.

"Well, we have plenty of puppies, if that's what she's looking for."

"I know...we have seen most of them," the Mom said in frustration...

Just then Danielle came walking into the office.

"Well, did you find one?" asked her Mom. "No, not this time,"

Danielle said with sadness in her voice. "Can we come back on the weekend?"

"You never know when we will get more dogs. Unfortunately, there's always a

supply," the volunteer said.

Danielle took her mother by the hand and headed to the door. "Don't worry,

I'll find one this weekend," she said.

Over the next few days, both Mom and Dad had long conversations with her.

They both felt she was being too particular.

"It's this weekend or we're not looking any more," Dad finally said in

frustration.

"We don't want to hear anything more about puppy size either," Mom added.

Sure enough, they were the first ones in the shelter on Saturday morning. By

now Danielle knew her way around, so she ran right for the section that

housed the smaller dogs. Tired of the routine, Mom sat in the small waiting

room at the end of the first row of cages.

There was an observation window so you could see the animals during times

when visitors weren't permitted. Danielle walked slowly from cage to cage,

kneeling periodically to take a closer look. One by one the dogs were

brought out and she held each one. One by one she said, "Sorry, you're not

the one."

It was the last cage on this last day in search of the perfect pup. The

volunteer opened the cage door and the child carefully picked up the dog and

held it closely. This time she took a little longer.

"Mom, that's it! I found the right puppy! He's the one! I know it!" she

screamed with joy. "It's the puppy size!"

"But it's the same size as all the other puppies you held over the last few

weeks," Mom said.

"No not size ---- the sighs. When I held him in my arms, he sighed," she

said.

"Don't you remember? When I asked you one day what love is, you told me love

depends on the sighs of your heart. The more you love, the bigger the sigh!"

The two women looked at each other for a moment. Mom didn't know whether to

laugh or cry. As she stooped down to hug the child, she did a little of

both.

"Mom, every time you hold me, I sigh. When you and Daddy come home from work

and hug each other, you both sigh. I knew I would find the right puppy if it

sighed when I held it in my arms," she said. Then holding the puppy up close

to her face she said, "Mom, he loves me. I heard the sighs of his heart!"

Close your eyes for a moment and think about the love that makes you sigh. I

not only find it in the arms of my loved ones, but in the caress of a

sunset, the kiss of the moonlight and the gentle brush of cool air on a hot

day. They are the sighs of God. Take the time to stop and listen; you will

be surprised at what you hear. "Life is not measured by the breaths we take,

but by the moments that take our breath.

-- Author Unknown

God made

Adam bit

Noah arked

Abraham split

Joseph ruled

Jacob fooled

Bush talked

Moses balked

Pharaoh plagued

People walked

Sea divided

Tablets guided

Promise landed

Saul freaked

David peeked

Prophets warned

Jesus born

God walked

Love talked

Anger crucified

Hope died

Love rose

Spirit flamed

Word spread

God remained.

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Blessings to all here. Have a good day. I'm feeling better. Still worried about Shorelady.

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Hello Everyone:

Bobbieuse: Good to read you are feeling better.

serenity: When grandson was born we just packed it all up and drove a U-Haul from the north to the south. Just threw caution to the wind with faith we'd be ok. It was the best thing we ever did. I hope you can be closer to your grandson sometime soon.

It doesn't matter physically were you live - your heart is your home.

Boy it's getting muggy here - time for salads and ignoring the oven. lol

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Hello To All!

I feel blessed to be able to hang out an American Flag today to commemorate June 6th, 1944 - D-Day, Normandy. I have the liberty to hang my flag and she's a bright and proud one with history of my home through the years and this nation from it's inception.

My highest and best of thoughts for all who ask. Be at peace and know you are loved.

CAKERS - Yes, I agree your home is where your heart is.

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Good afternoon! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Gloriajean, I've never played carble, but it sounds like fun. Thanks for your positive inspirational messages. I look forward to them each day. Smiley Happy

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On 6/6/2014 Cakers1 said:

Hello Everyone:

Bobbieuse: Good to read you are feeling better.

serenity: When grandson was born we just packed it all up and drove a U-Haul from the north to the south. Just threw caution to the wind with faith we'd be ok. It was the best thing we ever did. I hope you can be closer to your grandson sometime soon.

It doesn't matter physically were you live - your heart is your home.

Boy it's getting muggy here - time for salads and ignoring the oven. lol

{#emotions_dlg.wub}

Cakers, you said it all with "It doesn't matter physically where you live... your heart is your home. I hope you had a wonderful time with your grandson.Smile

Gloria, I think the idea of cranberry pills might be good. Thanks for the recommendation. I have been getting kidney infections back to back and last night I was running a 104 fever. I almost went to the ER due to the pain but God is good, and today it dropped somewhat. The Bactrim they told me takes 48 hours to work.

Praying for everyone's intentions and thinking of Shorelady. Also I haven't seen any posts from Felicia in awhile. I think of her often and hope she is well....

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Good evening!

I hope everyone has had a good day. Mine was busy running errands and I'm glad I got them done early because it came a gulley washer this afternoon. I don't mind the rain as long as I don't have to be out in it or drive in it. Helps all my flowers to grow. My husband didn't plant tomatoes this year, 1st time in many years. Low and behold he found some volunteer plants so we will see how they do, maybe we will get a good crop from them.

Thoughts, prayers, peace and blessings.


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Bobbiesue - concerned about shorelady also. This is so hard.

Cakers - in your situation, you did the right thing by moving there. We won't because we're not sure when Darla and Greg leave there for good and then again, there's Lori here. We moved from our house of 27 years a half hour from here to be close to Lori and that has been a good decision. At least we could be close to one girl.

Love Roses - you have a wonderful flag that is special to you. I just don't feel like flying my Dad's flag that was on his coffin. It hasn't been out of the bag since. First my sister had it, and she gave it to me. It's too emotional to take it out for me.

wildcat fan - I think Carble is a new game - it's fun, but we only played it for the first time, not knowing much about it yet. There were six of us playing it. I'm so glad you like the messages I put here. May God touch you with His special Love and Graces. Come again - love to get to know you!

Serenity - Those cranberry pills can't hurt - but do a lot of good, I would think. I am now taking one twice a day! Yes, thinking of our Felicia too!! Hope she's alright.

Lucy - hope you'll get some tomatoes with your volunteer plants. We did some years! It does work! And I don't mind some rain either especially when we need it and I'm not out in it!!!