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[Moonchilde]

@Stormygirl OMG "crotchies!" Ewwww!

This has quadrupled in the past 6 weeks. Maybe she DID break up with her long-term SO - or, the photos are really for him.

[Stormygirl]

@Moonchilde I admit I did once post on my own page "Who posts selfies more then once a month....and why? Forces people to look inward and ask themselves why..some may answer...some may not LOL. Is a question asked without pointing fingers LOL. Or does trhe old saying go "Why does a dog lick its back end?" Beacuse it CAN LOL. Or when they stop getting likes they may see that its time to slow down on the positive affirmation. You may be on point about the possible break-up and her need to either save face (no pun) or is really aimed at him. .

[sidsmom]

If people are saying she's beautiful, then she is.

It's hard to take good pictures on a consistent basis.

She sounds like she's very comfortable in her own skin.

Very confident.

People like to 'project' their own insecurities on

to other people.  If she's having fun with it, just enjoy

the fruits of her labor. 

Boom. Done. 

[Trinity11]

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@jaxs mom wrote:

The obvious answer is because she wants to. She probably likes fashion and makeup. I don't see anything wrong with that, and being a mother or over the age of 30 doesn't change anything. It's her Facebook page where she gets to do and say what she wants to and doesn't owe anyone an explanation as to why. I also don't consider 1-3 times a week constant. 

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@jaxs momYour answer reflects why I love Facebook. My kids have friends that have invited me to be a Friend to them and it keeps me young reading their pages. I love some of the girls who are really into fashion and makeup. Their selfies are welcome by me. And I also like it when someone shares what they are doing ....restaurant meals etc. For awhile there I was not able to get out and Facebook was a real lifeline for me. It definitely serves a purpose and I wish when I was young and active, it had been around in my day...

[Moonchilde]

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@jaxs mom wrote:

The obvious answer is because she wants to. She probably likes fashion and makeup. I don't see anything wrong with that, and being a mother or over the age of 30 doesn't change anything. It's her Facebook page where she gets to do and say what she wants to and doesn't owe anyone an explanation as to why. I also don't consider 1-3 times a week constant. 

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"Fashion" is not part of the equation as the shots are from the neck up. Clothing is not involved. She wears minimal to no makeup.

You don't consider it frequent/constant that someone pushing 40 posts a new glam shot what amounts to every other day some weeks. All righty then ... 😎

[Noel7]

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@Stormygirl wrote:

@Moonchilde I admit I did once post on my own page "Who posts selfies more then once a month....and why? Forces people to look inward and ask themselves why..some may answer...some may not LOL. Is a question asked without pointing fingers LOL. Or does trhe old saying go "Why does a dog lick its back end?" Beacuse it CAN LOL. Or when they stop getting likes they may see that its time to slow down on the positive affirmation.

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@Stormygirl

A lot of women do it to show fashion, how they put different outfits together.

[Puzzle Piece]

@Moonchilde There are many Mutual Admiration Societies going around these days. 

[Moonchilde]

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@sidsmom wrote:

If people are saying she's beautiful, then she is.

It's hard to take good pictures on a consistent basis.

She sounds like she's very comfortable in her own skin.

Very confident.

People like to 'project' their own insecurities on

to other people.  If she's having fun with it, just enjoy

the fruits of her labor. 

Boom. Done. 

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So, wait - because I question the reason behind someone posting headshots every other day, *I* of course have self-esteem issues? LOL.

Her family tells her she's beautiful. She's an attractive woman for her age but she's not model-pretty/gorgeous, and she looks her age - no more and no less.

[QueenDanceALot]

Sounds like an insecurity to me.

A need for validation on a very regular basis.

And yes, it also sounds very narcissistic.

[jaxs mom]

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@Moonchilde wrote:

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@jaxs mom wrote:

The obvious answer is because she wants to. She probably likes fashion and makeup. I don't see anything wrong with that, and being a mother or over the age of 30 doesn't change anything. It's her Facebook page where she gets to do and say what she wants to and doesn't owe anyone an explanation as to why. I also don't consider 1-3 times a week constant. 

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"Fashion" is not part of the equation as the shots are from the neck up. Clothing is not involved. She wears minimal to no makeup.

You don't consider it frequent/constant that someone pushing 40 posts a new glam shot what amounts to every other day some weeks. All righty then ... 😎

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Well I'm not hung up on all the age rules that a lot of posters try to foist on others. She isn't harming anyone and is having a good time. More power to her.